Am I over reacting about finding womens underwear in my SO's bag?

I found a woman’s underwear in my boyfriend’s bag. I confronted him, and he claims it has been in there and jokingly laughs about the situation. Am I overreacting for being upset? Mind you, he never asks or suggested that it might be mine; he knew it wasn’t and said it was an ex, but it was in there for a while. Thoughts?

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Why would he keep an ex girlfriend’s underwear that’s weird …

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I once found provocative pictures of a girl my now husband had in an old bag that he used when we first started dating…I think men are just dumb

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Um… Is this real life? I’d be out!

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Why has it “been in there” and why keep it in there lol like what kind of response was that from him? Nah girl, that shady.

So he didn’t mind you finding it?

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Lmfao nope… nope nope… Idk why you’re even still with him

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Liar, liar… Side piece panties on fire… Sorry, but he a damn lie.

Was it in a bag that he hasn’t used since you’ve been together? If yes. That seems fine. Is it a bag that he has used since you’ve been together? If yes, that’s not fine.

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Nope not over reacting

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Lol ummmm boy byeeeeee

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Wtf thats weird… id leave him

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Brittani Phillips oh hell naw

He is literally laughing in your face thinking you are stupid enough to stay. Don’t be.

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Just throw the whole man away you damn well know better!

I call BS. This is not a joke or prank any man in a real relationship would dare to do. Get out now, dont wait for more proof that you are wasting your time.

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Trust your gut. If any part of you thinks he’s downplaying it or lying he likely is. I know id flip out. That’s unacceptable.

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How long have you been together? That’s nasty and a huge red flag. Boy byeeeee

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Contact the owner & have her confirm?? :woman_shrugging:t3:

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I mean Is it a bag he uses regularly or a bag that was pulled outta the closet that hasn’t been used since you got together? I guess that could determine whether he’s lying or not. I’d still feel uncomfortable with the situation regardless…

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