Am I wrong for cutting out my sister in law?

This would be her sixth child. She has two up in heaven and two on earth, well three including my child. I guess I just don’t know how to feel about it. I mean, she hardly has her kids since her parents have the most of the time. We are getting a house soon, and I don’t know if I want her over there’s some I don’t know animosity. Maybe I just don’t understand it. How would you feel about it? Is this something I should talk to her about? I think I just needed to vent and get it out. Any help is appreciated. Thank you.

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She have 6 kids? 2 in heaven and 3 on earth including your, so where is the other 3?

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This is really confusing!!!

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I’m so confused. How are you considering your child as her child? And where is the animosity coming from? Like what’s the actual problem you have with her?

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Just mind your business. You’re welcome.

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what? Me no undertstand

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I had a stroke trying to understand this :woman_facepalming:

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You guys… it ain’t rocket science… she don’t like that her sister in law is a POS mom. It’s horrible grammer but you can definitely comprehend lol.

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i came to the comments to hep make sence but that didnt help lol

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Did she give you your child for you to adopt him?

She has 3 and 2 in heaven… that’s 5. And the 6th is the one she’s pregnant with

Did you ever think maybe her parents want the kids all the time

What I always tell people is simple really. You don’t have to like my choices, you don’t have to agree with them, and they don’t have to be the things you’re into. What you won’t do is belittle me because you have a different personal view. If you don’t like me because of who I am, then you obviously need to remove yourself from my life. We won’t get along if you hold me to your standards and not my own. I feel as though you are acting like a child first and foremost. This post was terribly confusing and made absolutely no sense despite being able to understand it enough to get a small picture of what’s happening. Remove yourself from the situation and learn some human decency before returning to cause chaos.

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People just have to learn in their own way. The harder we try and force our opinions on what they should do or shouldn’t, in the long run it’s too much energy for you to take on when in reality, it’s her situation. If she has 2 in heaven then she probably has things she needs to work through herself because it has impacted her. This is a weird story but big picture is either talk to her about whatever you need to talk about or continue on with life.

I’m confused, what is the issue

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You should talk to her.if she doesnt understand , at least you were honest with her.

my vertigo went up to heaven n then back down to earth trying to get the point

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I feel like this is one of those math riddles.

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Communicate…even if you still decide you don’t want her over. Talk to her, as uncomfortable as it might be.

Sounds like you need to mind your business

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