Am I wrong for not wanting to bring my kids around someone who disrespects me?

So my boyfriend’s baby mama is psychotic crazy. When my son was born, she posted his pictures talking crap about me. She was always saying my boyfriend needs DNA for my son because he isn’t his. Now she’s talking crap about me and calling me a deadbeat because her daughter “deserves to meet her siblings.”. Am I wrong for not wanting to bring my son around someone who can’t respect me?

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I wouldn’t. The kids can but she can’t.

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What does your boyfriend say about all this

No you are not. Your BF should take the lead on the siblings meeting your baby. She doesn’t need to be involved. Does he not get visitation? If he does he should bring the kids to your home to meet the baby.

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Your child, your voice! 🤷

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I think that you’re absolutely right! Stay away from all that drama! Kids pick up on a lot of things!

why would you need to bring your son around her?! Your son have a relationship with his sister at your home while she visits her father…what does that have to do with the ex

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No you are not wrong … i would not want that negativity in my child’s life now when she can calm down apologize and learn to be civil then maybe and your boyfriend can always bring his daughter around your son without her being there

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I would not
All for kiddos getting to meet each other but shes his ex and this is your baby sounds like shes trying to stir the pot more

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Can the boyfriend bring his kids around your guys kid with out her? Cause his kids have the right to know each other but she shouldn’t have to be there.

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Ewww glad you ain’t around her … nasty peasant … you are better then her !!! :ok_hand::heart: :crown:

Sweet Jesus no. You are the Mama and if your gut is telling you no then NO :x:

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Too much drama. Fuck her.

Nope if she’s worried about the sibling relationship then your boyfriend can pick up his kids and bring them over to meet and spend time with baby no way in hell would I let that chick around my kids

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You got to protect your kids from the psycho God only knows what she would do or say to them

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I wouldn’t want the negativity around me so you are not. Is there any sort of counseling or anyway whatsoever to work out the problems with this woman. For the sake of having to coparent?

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Nope! Cut her out and move on! I am dealing with the same thing from my husband’s parents…

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I wouldn’t let my kid 500 feet from that kind of crazy.

As for siblings, they can be around, when they are in their father’s care. :woman_shrugging:

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If her daughter wants to meet her siblings she can come to your house with her father

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She should meet her siblings but through your boyfriend bringing them around. Not her.

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