Did you meet the love of your life at the wrong time?

I met him at the wrong time. We were friends for 7 years and then finally got together. We always went back to each other and we were always there for each other. I knew I wanted him and he knew he wanted me. The timing was just off. We’ve been together about 3.5 years now and have a daughter together

Yes! We just reunited and are now expecting :heart_eyes: move into our apartment April 1st, and I’ve never been more happy and grateful ! It’s been 5 years since we’ve been together and just finally reconnected and clicked better than ever

Meet the love of my life when I was 15 he was dating my best friend at the time and I was dating an abusive asshole for three years before I met him. Him and the girl broke up and i left my ex, he messaged me one day and I didnt think he was serious till he sent me a relationship request on facebook we dated for a month then he broke up with me, then asked me back out on april fools day we stayed together for awhile after that. Were on and off for about 4 years and then went and lived our own lives for a year having a whole new experience and growth then we got back together and that year we got pregnant with our son and weve been together 3 years strong and engaged to be married <3 not all relationships are perfect some are on winding river courses

Yes :raised_hands: . In 2011 got into a car accident in the freeway. Got sick of that accident mentally . I wasn’t doing so good was really sick for three months I literally was going crazy no one could help me not even medication I didn’t know at that time I suffered from PTSD along with really bad anxiety attacks … mom told me go out there and because she thought I was going to go crazy if I did nothing home in the dark … well I did what she said I felt sick still along that I met my kids father … from there it wen on and help me with everything it took my mind of the sickness I felt and been together for 10 years now . But I still feel sick sometimes

I met the love of my life in highschool. We were totally incompatible.

About 10 yrs later we started dating. Got married. Had a kid. Now 7yrs married and more in love today than I ever was before :heartbeat:

Trust the process

Possibly but I’ll probably never know as we’ve met and spoken (nothings ever happened but that) but I was married when he wasn’t and once I was divorced, he found someone and got married. Now when I was married I was young and off in the military, came back home after many year - almost 20.

We met when I was 5 years old. I always had a crush on him (he was my best friends brother). I lost my virginity to him when I was a teenager and we hooked up on and off for a few years. We both went our seperate ways. I married someone else and had 2 kids, he was also in a long term relationship. I divorced my husband and he and his girlfriend broke up around the same time and we reconnected. It was extremely rocky at first but here we are almost 4 years later, a few weeks out from having our 2nd child together. He’s been a better dad to my older 2 than their own father and his 2 boys were just placed full time with us. I ALWAYS knew he was my person :two_hearts:

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Yes. My now husband and I were friends with benefits 15 years ago. His band was about to make a record deal, we were young and he was not ready for a girlfriend. I moved across the country and dated someone else for about 4 years, and when I moved back home we began dating. We’ve now been together 10 years, married for 5, and I’ve been in love before but definitely not like this. I truly believe he is my soulmate.

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Met mine 6 years ago the summer before high school we were toxic for each other all through high school now we are currently living together getting our lives together with a beautiful one year old baby girl and a baby on the way things are going smoothly now.

The right person at the wrong time is the wrong person.

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dated mine when I was in grade 9 him 10. dated for 6 ish months.
8/9 years later. we got back together. and have been together for 3 so far.

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Absolutely…
We both ended up in different states with different people, in mostly loveless but stable long term marriages.

We reconnected once online, but his wife was very threatened by us talking 1000 miles away from eachother (funny because he chose her “due to kids” all those years ago… Guess since kids are gone he’s not so happy)…

Anyway, life is what it is. I always wonder what if, but my children are happy, healthy awesome adults, my home is great & my husband has been a very good provider so I don’t cry over spilled milk anymore…

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Yes. In first grade.

Yep! I ended up marrying him and I’m so happy I did! I was just coming out of a divorce and I had a 2 year old. I did not want to date but I couldn’t say no to him! LOL :joy: It took me a while because I was afraid to commit but I thank god I put those feelings aside and went with my heart. He is truly my soulmate.

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I just want to say thank you for posting this question. These stories have got my face hurting from smiling so much. Y’all are absolutely wonderful.

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If it’s meant to be, it will be, when the time is right.

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I sure did, back in 2010 we finally got together in 2018 celebrating 3 yrs today together.

Well I guess I never met the love of my life! I thought I did but nope! :frowning:

Maybe he isn’t born yet? :joy: jk

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Yes, 13 yrs ago, we had a tumultuous on and off, mostly toxic relationship until about 7 years ago when we realized we needed to get our act together if we really wanted to be together. We were really young and immature and wound up having a baby in the mess. With hard work and 100% dedication, we worked through the past trauma, got married, and had more children. I would have never imagined we would be in this beautifully healthy space. I thank God every day for literally being each other’s best friend. Our oldest child teases us with how silly and in love we are, and that they hope to have a relationship like ours in the future. I hope all of our children have the love we have for each other now, but don’t experience the hard parts. I am so glad we can show our children this healthy marriage, where conflicts are effectively resolved and love always wins.

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Yes , was in each other’s life till he passed for a 4×4 wreak . Never married to each other. Meet is high school . And pathes just kept crossing . Helped his wife when he passed.