Do I have a right to be mad that my boyfriend DNA tested our daughter without telling me?

Why be mad, it tells alot about him that he wanted it.

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Leave him hats disrespectful and would pissed me off

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You have every right to be angry. He basically concluded you were a liar and cheat but was not man enough to tell you.

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You’ve been together over a year and have a three month old = pregnant right away. I understand you may feel hurt but his friend is just trying to be a friend maybe he thinks you were already pregnant when you met.

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I would personally be very upset!

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I am so on the fence about this. Yes, you have every right to be mad that he went behind your back, but then again, if you know he is dad then it don’t matter. I sincerely don’t mean that in a rude way cause him going behind your back is WRONG and I would be upset also but a part of me would be like now that I know, let’s just do it and prove it to whoever (not that it is anyone else’s concern). Honestly, my feelings I guess could go either way cause I wouldn’t want my boyfriend doing crap like that behind my back for real. We have been together almost 5 years and he always jokes about DNA testing my almost 3 year old even though they look identical and he knows that and I know 100% he has no doubts and I just tell him, u want to pay for it u go right ahead cause I know the truth. Anyway, again, I mean nothing rude about this at all cause I do know I would be hurt and upset at first to find out he went that far to try to go behind your back about it instead of just talking to you about it.

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Nope it’s his kid too, meaning he can DNA test if he pleases. :woman_shrugging: is it shitty for your relationship? Sure, but he clearly needed a peace of mind.

It seems to me that maybe the only thing that’s holding him there is the baby. Yes cut loose and find out what’s going on. Something is up.

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Throw the whole damn man away

I wouldn’t be upset! I know who my daughter’s dad is and if he ever felt the need to check DNA, even if did it behind my back! If he felt the need to do it! I don’t see an issue!

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Aww these mad women saying leave him. Dont that is silly. Sit down and talk. See what is up be an adult.

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If someone was putting doubts in his head, why not let him get some peace of mind? The comment that you’re honest “even when I don’t have to be” makes me question your honesty. Women know a baby is ours and men deserve to know the same.

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First you have a right to be upset just as he has a right for a dna test to put any worries to rest. What’s done is done, talk about it, fix what needs fixing and move on, either together or separate.

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If its in illinois and hes not on the birth cirtificate then thats totally illegal.

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I don’t see a problem here. The people you think you know the best, are usually the ones that screw you. He doesn’t need your permission to make sure the kid is his.

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So shocked there’s people actually seeing this as ok. Obviously she would be upset, he has no trust in her, went behind her back. If you can’t bring something like this up straight to her face and talk about it as an adult, then obviously this relationship has issues from the get-go. There’s too many women out here thinking thatbehavior was okay

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Maybe he should shack up with his bestie…What an asshole.

I’d be so upset. But everyone situation is different. Mom you do whats best for you. Don’t let fb post tell you how u should feel. Trust your gut. Stay strong Hopefully things will turn for the better.

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To the people telling her she’s over reacting, did he pick you :woozy_face::woozy_face::woozy_face:

I don’t see the problem

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