Do I have a right to be mad that my boyfriend DNA tested our daughter without telling me?

Wow you people are fucking idiotic, its literally illegal in certain circumstances.

Yes you have a right to be upset with him, and if he is so worried about it why is he with you?
Dont sounds like anything you say would make him believe you over his friend.

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If the baby is his then why worry🤷‍♀️ Juat sit back, smile and wait for his I’m sorry. To be honest I don’t think it’s an issue.

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Sounds like he is looking for an out. Just give it to him who has time for that garbage

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Performing any kind of test on a newborn without your consent is absolutely disgusting.

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Idk if my ex decided he wanted to get a dna test done I’d be like whatever. Cause it’s 100% his kid. Idc I understand wanting that reassurance and to make sure. :woman_shrugging: so many incidents where guys find out its not their child after years of taking care of the child and getting emotionally involved. Its honestly not a big deal for a guy to want to be sure its his kid. I wouldn’t like if he hid it from me though if he wanted one I’d expect him to just tell me. But some women react differently than others.

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I would be upset he lied, but also understand him wanting a test. My ex husband tested both of our kids bc he had situations where women said the baby was his and it wasn’t, it happens all the time. Personally I would let him know that lying and hiding isn’t ok, he needs to be open and honest but maybe show some understanding of his concern. Yall hadnt been together that long before you got pregnant, and even if you had, there are horrible women out there and that is a serious thing. Best of luck to yall!

Meh if it doesn’t work out he can’t deny it isn’t his. When you’ve had enough at least your guaranteed support

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I’d discuss the lack of trust he had in you with him. Discuss how having his friend interfere in your relationship makes you feel. The fact that he allows his friend to come between you is the problem here.

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Going behind her back is the issue. That is not healthy for any relationship. Cut and run.

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I would get DNA test and shive the results in his face

No i would be mad too.

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If it’s really his then let him waste the money to get it done. Then when it comes back as she’s his rub it in his face lol and tell his friend to back the fuck up already

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He’s probably gay with his friend. Just leave.

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I personally wouldn’t care at all. Ive been through a similar situation where the father of my oldest filed for a paternity test without me knowing and i didnt care at all if he has questions about paternity regardless of the situation he has a right to know for sure and as long as your confident that he is the father then it shouldnt be an issue for you either. Besides if you did a paternity test then you would have to worry about him pulling the idk if I’m father card down to road just to get out of being a parent if that ever were to happen and your daughter would have that proof of who her father is if he ever tried to deny her.

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The fact that he did it behind your back says there are LARGER issues at hand. This won’t be the only time. I would DEFINITELY move on without him.

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I think it’s ok, unless your hiding something…

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He doesn’t trust you. He’s also showing that he isn’t mature enough to have adult conversation. Or he just let his friend get into his head and made a stupid decision. Either way, don’t stress. The baby is his. He looks like the fool for mistrusting you. The friend proves to be a liar. Life goes on. Personally I’d have been mad for a little bit too. A little hurt too.

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Seems suspicious. Usually the one that is going behind your back is the guilty one.

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He did it behind your back which is the entire issue here. Absolutely justified in being upset. That’s kind of crazy.

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