Do you feel like you missed out only being with one man?

Is any mama out here been with only one man? I’ve been with mine since I was 16 got married at 20. I am now 36 and feel like I missed out in away. Why do I feel like this?

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If he’s good to you then no , there’s nothing but heartbreak out here mostly

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My mum and dad have only been with each other they been married for 33 years now I think it’s so rare and special trust me the grass isn’t always greener :kissing_heart: treasure what you have :heart:

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Because you’re not really in love :woman_shrugging:t2:

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You havent missed out on anything if hes good to you

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Let me tell you, i am the opposite of your position and you most certainly did not miss out. I wish i wouldve only been with my husband.

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I was 15 married at 21…felt same way left at 38 felt so guilty but wasnt in love just habbit

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Maybe because you are losing feelings for him? Maybe because you dont truly love him?
If you really loved him, he would be enough. You wouldnt even think about or care about others.

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Ive been with my husband since i was 17. We have been together for 33 yrs. I wouldnt change anything.

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You didn’t miss anything.

Nope. I’ve been with mine since I was 13 and I’m 33 now. We have 4 kids together. Wouldnt trade him for nothing in the world :heart:

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I’ve only ever been with my husband, met when I was 15 now I’m 25. I don’t feel like I’ve missed out on anything. Him and I have grown up together and I can’t even imagine having that level of comfort and understanding with anyone else. He is the only person you knows me in every way possible. I think it’s special and rare :heart:

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If hes good to you, I’m jealous of you. Lol

90% of men are assholes or atleast mostly assholes with some nice/attractive mixed in in my opinion. Lol you ain’t missing something amazing.

Maybe you are hitting somewhat of a mini mid-life crisis? We all wonder if we want all whole new change at some point. Things can get very bland and repetitive. Try and spice things up and add other changes to your life! :blush:

My friends tell me its good cos I cant compare so i believe them.

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Yea totally missing out on multiple heartbreaks and betrayals :roll_eyes::roll_eyes: i wish i could’ve found my husband sooner and shared all the firsts with him.

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Nope been there done that nobody makes me feel the way my husband does

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Sounds like something is missing…maybe you two need to light the spark again? Trust me you didn’t miss a thing girl!

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i feel complete opposite. i wish i found my husband sooner to love him longer.

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Missed out on what? Fuck boys that don’t know what they want or treat their girls like shot. Consider yourself lucky bc if he is good too you, then ur one of the lucky ones

Sometimes I do, but honestly everyone’s relationship around us are falling apart. After watching even family go through what they go through, I’m happy my life is stable. I’ll have more freedom to live my life with my hubby when our babies are grown. I was 16 when we got together.

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