Does it sound like my spouse is hiding something?

I am so confused on what to do. I asked my oh to look into his phone because I think he has stuff in there that he shouldn’t. Well, he tells me that he doesn’t remember his password, and his fingerprint, which he uses to open, is not working. I don’t understand how you don’t remember your password to your phone because you need backup because fingerprint does not work all the time, well, at least on my iPhone. Well, he gets so mad that he destroys the phone. I don’t know what to think to know if he really is hiding something, or could he really have forgotten his password.

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Oh yeah… he is! Who the gel destroys their phone like that?

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Nope. Hiding shit. I been through it all

He is hiding something. Someone who reacts in that way is definitely up to something they didn’t want you seeing. Possibly caught off guard if you don’t ask to go through it often, and didn’t know what else to do.

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Sorry to say but that sounds pretty suspicious to me. :cry:

He destroyed his phone… yes he’s hiding something

Definitely hiding something.

Sorry lady, he’s definitely got something to hide :pensive:

He’s DEFINITELY hiding something

Girl, go! He’s no good and your first red flag was thinking you need to search his phone.

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Girl i think you know the answer… Go with your gut he is hiding something

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Unfortunately that sounds like he’s got some skeletons in his closet

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Oh my lord… this relationship is doomed to hell

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For sure hiding something.

so he doesn’t know his password and his fingerprint doesn’t work…how is he getting in the phone??? the cherry on top is he destroys his phone rather than letting you see it…def some issues going on. i suggest therapy.

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It sounds like he’s hiding something… but then again if the trust is broken to the point where you feel the need to look at his phone then there’s a bigger issue there to begin with…

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Guilty! My ex used to destroy phones when he was cornered!

No one would destroy their phone like that unless there is something they are hiding. He knows he’s caught. Follow your gut.

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Red flag - he be lyin

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He’s cheating and mad that he is getting caught. Lashing out is a way to get you to feel bad and back down. Men are worse than cranky toddlers when they get caught cheating

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