How can I get my ex and boyfriend to meet?

I’ve been dating a guy for about one year now. My ex knows we are in a serious relationship but hasn’t asked any questions about my boyfriend and hasn’t met him yet. What is the best way to get them to meet

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Set up a play date LOL

Why do they need to meet? Kids involved?

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Why would you need them to meet? Just leave it alone.

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I’m assuming there are children involved, otherwise, Why?

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Why do they need to meet? Sounds like you’re asking for needless drama.

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For what??? That is so weird to me! I would never want to be in that position.

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If they dont care, then why should you.

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I can understand it if kids are involved but if not why?

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Wtf are you talking about?

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Unless y’all have kids why?

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This is a mamas Facebook page so it’s safe to assume children are involved guys :joy:

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Not sure why they need to meet unless you have a child with your ex. Otherwise they wouldn’t need to. If you run into each other you could do an introduction but no need for anything more.

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Why would you want your boyfriend to meet your ex?

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If they don’t care I guess just make sure they have each other’s contact info incase emergency. I find it weird he doesn’t want to meet the guy around his kids :woman_shrugging:t2:

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Why? If neither has asked to meet the other, then they don’t need to meet.:woman_shrugging:t5:

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Why do they need to meet? I have never felt a need to force that kind of thing?

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Why do you want them to meet? The only reason would be if you have a child with your ex and your new boyfriend is involved with your child. Otherwise what’s the point?

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If there are kids involved maybe she’s trying to see if they could build a healthy co-parenting relationship where they are all involved. Just because he hasn’t asked doesn’t mean he isn’t interested in knowing your boyfriend unless he specifically said he didn’t want to. I would casually bring up the idea of having dinner together with the kids included. Also, just because it didn’t work between them doesn’t mean the ex is a bad person as I am still friends with an ex of mine.

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Ummmm. What??? Why does your ex need to meet your current boyfriend? I understand if you have kids together, but if its to make your ex jealous, that’s just messed up.

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