How can I get my ex and boyfriend to meet?

Girl…stoooop it.
I have 2 baby daddies that have never met the man that I’ve been with for 4 years.
He treats the kids well and that’s all that matters to them.
And vice versa.
They are both in relationships with females that i have never really met. And don’t have any interest in doing so.
Both ladies treat my children well and that’s all that matters to me 🤷

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I love that all the people questioning her like she’s dumb for wanting them to meet, are actually the head scratchers :joy: Obviously she has kids, why the hell else would she be in THIS group asking the question :roll_eyes:

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Why, you want to start some shit; go your way n forget your x.

If there aren’t any children involved, there’s no reason for them to meet.

If there ARE children between you & your ex, they still don’t need to meet unless your current boyfriend becomes family.

why would you even think of that

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Why unless you have kids together other than that no need

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Sorry people are either clueless or needed to get in there rude comment of the day. In my world no reason they can’t meet. Best for everybody to meet and be respectful for the kids. Kids birthdays work best .

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Wena stop playing man🙄

Just ask your ex if he would like to meet your new dude, and if so, then invite them to dinner (with the kids would be nice so both old dude and new dude can see the other interact with the kids). To the commenters, I agree she makes it sound super shady, but y’all act like it’s not a good thing to have all the adults involved in raising children on the same page. If your exes don’t know your partners and you share kids, you’re the one that’s fucked up, not this chick. Your kids deserve for their village to be able to work together. If you can’t, y’all not grown enough to raise kids and I’m sad for you. There’s no room for possessive and jealous behavior in raising children. Leave that shit in high school where it belongs.

Do you have kids???

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If there’s no kid with the ex that is super weird

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Whenever they drop the kids or vice versa. The shorter the better it’s less awkward! That’s where I would start.

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You dont unless you have kids

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Why would you want them to meet?

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Are y’all really commenting about whether or not they have kids as if this page isn’t named MAMAS Uncut. :face_with_raised_eyebrow::woman_facepalming:t2:

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I’m gonna assume you have kids with your ex and that’s why these people are gonna look silly lol.

Any how, just talk to them both and tell them that now that you and the new man have been together a while and plan to stay serious you’d like for them to meet for the kids sake and everyone to get along

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They don’t have to meet if they don’t want to. You can still co parent without them meeting.

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Mmmm why would you want to?

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I’m assuming you have kids. It will happen when it’s meant to happen. Don’t rush it or things can go south. If there is no kids then never would be a great option unless everyone agrees.

Y’all act ignorant :joy::woman_facepalming:t2: