How do you really know your marriage is over? What’s the breaking point??
When you no longer care enough to fight.
When you ask if they still want to be with you and they say idk. That did it for me.
When you stop caring what they do, and start caring about what you’re going to do for yourself…
that day when they tell you they married the wrong brother and they’re suddenly gone from your heart
When you can no longer communicate the problem and silence becomes the answer.
When you don’t retaliate in a argument … and you worry about yourself ( and kids if you have any ) no sex…
When you stop caring
When you see them coming home as a burden
When you picture being ha ppy without them.
When it’s obviously broken, but no one is willing to do the work to fix it.
You can’t force someone to be a partner if they don’t have any interest, and you can’t have a partnership with just one person.
Marriage is hard work and dedication. When neither one of you is attempting to work towards the goal of making it work then maybe it’s time to walk away.
I would think that if u have to ask, you aren’t there yet.
I knew because the sight of my then husband made me physically nauseous
If you can picture the most happy an best moments you shared with that person but them having that with someone else and it not bothering you at that point you know for sure you no longer love them at all
When you communicate these thoughts (because that’s part of a relationship…communication…) and neither of you wish to work it out.
When you ask if he is in love with you & he hesitates before answering. That’s when i knew it was over.
When neither of them are happy. You can love someone and not be with them. For me its hearing the words “Im not happy” bc no one deserves that kind of mental abuse.
Gosh, i already have all the reasons being mentioned but i am still staying for the sake of my son. It’s really frustrating.
The opposite of Love is Not hate.
It is Indifference.
Check in with yourself.
I hope this helps.
When you are only interested in their paycheck.