How do I get my partner to stop complimenting me?

How do I get my partner to stop complimenting me? Yes, this is 100% real. I’ve been in a relationship with this man for a few months now and I absolutely HATE when he compliments me. He’ll call me beautiful, sexy, smart, etc. and it makes me upset. I don’t like it, and it feels like a bunch of lies because I know I’m none of these things. Other than the compliment issue, our relationship is going really well, so I want to find a tactful way to get him to stop or ask him to stop without ruining things. Is there a way I can ask him to keep these things to himself and not say them to me?

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Lol leave that man give him to some one who deserves him lol

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Grow up. Girls would LOVE for someone to talk to them that way. Seriously. There are women being abused and your complaining about this

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May I suggest getting therapy? No shame in needing help, it just sounds like you may have some issues from your past that you may need help working through.

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Seriously? Most would kill for that

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I think this is a YOU issue andd you probably could use some counseling.

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Just speak to your dude!! We dont know your relationship so I feel like situations like these you need to figure it out yourself. Seek therapy or something if it’s that bad with you
Dont come here complaing if he stops completely though because you asked for it💁‍♀️

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I think instead of figuring out how to make him stop complimenting you, you get some damn therapy to work on your insecurities lol

You as a woman can see yourself from his eyes. That’s how he sees you.

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All I can say is WHAT THE F*^%# ???

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It’s because he admires you and be thankful that he calls you that because when that stops someone else possibly has his attention.

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Seriously you need a counselor girl hes a catch

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You should just do him a favor and leave lmao that way he can find someone who appreciates that shit.
Not saying your wrong for not liking it, but have you thought that maybe you asking him to stop is taking something away from him as well?

Say thank you. Simple, easy, and easy on you

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Oh this gonna be good

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you know they’re lies?! sound like you need therapy so you can learn to love yourself — and learn to let him love you

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It sounds like you should be in therapy. Not trying to get him to stop being nice to you?

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Sweety no just no. What you believe isn’t true to you most definitely is for him. Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder and he is viewing you in his eyes. Your self body issues is what is causing you to not see it. Accept the compliments your man gives you before you make him resent saying those things and get help with your own view s on yourself.

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It sounds like you have confidence issues. He is telling you how he sees you.

You’d be worried if he was calling you dumb, ugly etc

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This is a you issue, not a him issue. You’ve clearly been broken down and made to believe you are less than. Let this man, with the help of some therapy build you back up.

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