Maybe they are open. Maybe it’s none of your business.
You don’t! Everybody is happy as they want to be!
Eh pretty sure she knows…with that amount of time…she probally has her side piece and all is well…mind yo buisness
This is horrible u could tell but she knew you have known this long and not said anything until now she wouldn’t be very happy I probley wouldn’t gonna get in that fight at all
Your dont! You mind your business
I would tell her. My thought is that she deserves to know. I would hope someone would tell me.
I told a woman flat out. She told me to eff off and that her man wouldn’t do that. Even though I had screen shots of our conversation (before I found out he was married)
Your husband is cheating…here are the receipts. Disgusts me to hear people say you don’t.
Wow- what a story. Good luck !
If my man was cheating I wouldn’t care how I was told as long as I was told as long as your willing to show me proof !!! Yoh cant just send some on a random message /letter then walk away you either tell and show all or mind your business there is no inbetween
25 year !!! Christ that’s a long time to knock someone off , might as well ave got married
25 years? She part of the family, wym?
I’m sure the man and his wife have already worked through that. You don’t have an affair for 25 years and the spouse not know something is up… Mind your business. She’s your mom, why would you try to ruin her reputation? The only way I’d say it’s good to tell, is if he is possibly your father.
I wouldn’t listen to these comments saying not to tell her. Why wouldn’t you? Or any of you? We’re all women, we need to protect each other man. Why would you wanna let an Innocent woman go on any longer being humiliated and played like this? I would definitely tell her. Stick up for her, be a friend and break it to her the best way you can because I seriously couldn’t even imagine my husband cheating on me for 25 years let alone people knowing about it all along and me looking like a fucking idiot
She knows. Shut up. Why are you doing this to your mother?
If you really feel the need to tell her I would just send an anonymous letter. Don’t open yourself up for more involvement in it.
Sorry, NO ONE goes 25 years w/o knowing. She knows… And if she doesn’t “know” … She’s probably screwing around as well.
Wow. There’s no way she doesn’t know. Or at least a part of her suspects it. You can always send her an anonymous message. But, that’s opening an entire can for yourself. His wife thou, can’t be that naive. She most likely does know, but is one of those wife’s, that she doesn’t wanna admit it to herself. Or she really is that naive 🤷 but damn… That’s a lot of years to cheat on your wife… I foresee an episode of snap coming🤷😂 shit she’s probably planning an escape already lol
It’s very likely she already knows. On one level or another. Women usually feel these things out after awhile. 25 years? I’m betting she’s aware.
So…I’m usually a mind your own business person but I would want to know so I could get out and stop looking like an idiot and get on with my life. I don’t care what anyone on here is saying…you’d want to know too.