Sometimes you just cannot please someone…just go about your business and try to move forward. She wants you to prove and show and you’re not hitting the mark…you never will. She has some issues, dont stick around, go with your gut instinct. Make some solid decisions and then follow through. When men treat women this way they’re cheating …trying to be nice on their way out… take the hint
If this was a women posting, everyone would tell her to leave and find a better man. Sooooo…show her manipulating ways how it feels and leave her!
She’s done. Work on you and stop begging. Stop trying. This was me when I was done with my husband but I never said try to make me stay because there wasn’t a thing in this world that could make me stay. And for her to say show her you want her makes her sound like a narcissist. Let go and move on before it ends up worse
This is so so sad I really feel for you! But this isn’t healthy it’s only going to get worse trust me! I was in a relationship like this once but I had a child with the guy he would make me feel bad if I didn’t do anything right and he would play mind games with me threatening to leave etc and then come back acting all nice and normal then it got too serious (dv) I prayer in your situation it doesn’t come to that but this isn’t healthy and it will mentally mess you up. It did with me I couldn’t love or trust anyone again I was always apologising for everything even knowing in my heart I wasn’t at fault but because you are so use to it, it just sticks in your brain. You seem like a honest decent lovely fella but even if you love this woman with everything you’ve got do you really think she loves you the way she treats you especially having feeling towards her ex? You can’t love 2 people at the same time. Sounds like she loves him. Take everyone’s advice and go it’s easier said than done but in a few months you will see a change within yourself. Good luck
Next time, you leave her… & tell her to show you she loves you & to change your mind
Well I feel like she doesn’t feel wanted that’s why she’s like chase me show me you want me. She’s begging for your attention and affection
All these people saying leave are what’s wrong with society. You are married you chose to be together til death. Our divorce rate is so high because people just “leave” give her more love and lots of attention and just see if that does anything. When I was younger I used to play little games like that because I didn’t know how to express it without feeling super vulnerable and insecure.
She should never threaten!! I would never beg, I am better than that, so are you. I view this as control over you. As a woman I don’t like that…husband or wife. Just let her be to think about all of this. You too.
I don’t see anything about children or her being married before? But seeing comments about that.
Run.don’t walk to the nearest lawyer
Its time to leave. People like that hardly change.
Sounds to me she just doesn’t want you to move on. Kick her to the curb and go find true happiness!