How should I handle family telling people my personal business?

What would you mamas do if you had a parent/sibling/or grandparent move in and continually talking about your family to every Tom dick and Harry?!? Me and my fiancé are very private people and keep to ourselves well recently I had a family member move in with me my children and fiancée we don’t allow certain people in our home because of the lifestyle they choose to live we don’t want that around our children even if it is family we’ve cut ties with them well this family member doesn’t respect that and talks bad upon us because we want better and strive for better. They have brought these people to our home after being told not to has trash-talked my fiancée and me to said people and after being asked to stop continued to do so what would you do ask them to find somewhere else to live I just want what’s best for my children and am so confused this person moved to my house to get away from these people to so I just can’t understand why it’s a problem I don’t want them in my house or our names being talked about

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It’s time for them to move out.

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Tell them get out. You said you didn’t want people like that in your life and that’s exactly what they are doing. Time for them to go.

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I would kick them out! My house, my rules

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Time for them to go.

Kick them out. Respect the home and the occupants. Regardless of family or not. Bye felicia

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Put.Them.Out!

If you don’t have peace anywhere, you have it in your home.

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Tell that person they need to move out

Seems like a pretty simple solution :face_with_monocle:

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So is there a reason they are still living with you? I’d be kicking them out I wouldnt allow anyone to talk poorly on my husband and completely disrespect yalls kindness for letting them live there by having people you very clearly stated you dknt want there and comments. I’d be done there would be no warnings I’d have their bags packed and doors locked/change Locke before they get home.

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Make them leave. Easy peasy! :blush:

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You’ve already cut ties with family that set a bad example. Time to move your roommate to the same list.

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Tell em bye bye. Only way your going to get that privacy.

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Lay down the rules and the consequences. Make it known you are serious. Then do what you said if necessary.

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That family member would have to go.

Kick them out. Running their mouth to everyone after you kindly let them live in your home is disrespectful. Tell the person to go live with who they are running their mouth to.

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Kick the person out point blank period and tell them they are no longer welcome in or near your home and children.

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They need to go. Family or not, toxic is toxic. Your little family comes first now.

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I would tell them it’s not working out with them living there
U love them but not working out n need find other arrangements

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Move them out let no one move in again!