How should I handle this situation with my sister in law?

She sounds like a narcissist. Cut her out

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Cut her out of your life.

There is nothing wrong with snipping off toxicity.

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She can’t have access to any of your family any more. I agree nude baby pics shouldn’t be shared on Facebook especially when she’s not the mother of the baby. You’ve got to do your best to cut her out and " Grey rock " her when you’re at a family event. Let her look like an idiot when she goes psycho.

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Cut her off alreadyyyyy

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This person is a narcissist . nothing you do will help or change her. My son is married to one and she fights with everyone in the family . It is so sad that all 3 of this brothers and sisters will only talk to him. I have not talked to her in 5 years it’s a nightmare. Cut her off before it gets worse.

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Block her cut her out

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Um time to delete and block her from all social media and your lives…she sounds toxic and it will never get better.

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Sounds like a narcissist! Definitely wouldn’t want that type of energy around my child. If your husband hasn’t said anything to his brother yet it’s well over due

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I would report any photos of your child you did not approve her to post. Give her a last chance discussion and warn her if her behavior does not cease, you will no longer be a part of her life and no longer supplying any ammunition for her verbal destruction. If she continues another time, make her be aware of her last disruption and cut her off! Maybe she’ll come to a realization after she gets no more contact. She sounds like an over-controlling snob and she can leave that nonsense in her own house.

just ignore her
dont stoop down to her level
spend ur energy on those who deserve ur precious time :ok_hand:

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She sounds like my cousins crazy wife.
Legit what I call her.
She sounds like her to a T.
But my cousins crazy wife doesn’t have a mind of her own. She does anything and everything everybody else is doing.
She’s very childish.
It’s rough.
We were pregnant with our first children at the same time and on the day of my baby shower she went on Facebook and cried to the family that she was going to go into preterm labor. And she wasn’t ready for that and nobody cared for her.
The morning of my shower.
She has to know every birthday theme I do for my daughter and then she does it the year following but her daughter is a whole month older than mine.
I have since blocked her from my life BUT she nags my family to know what I’m doing and if they don’t do it she’ll throw a fit.
Nobody in the family likes her but THEY just deal with her.
They call my mom and ask my mom what I’m up to. Because I deleted all of them on all of my social media accounts because of her.
Yes I know it’s sad because it’s one person.
But people can be sooooooo toxic and soo draining and soo much that it just… takes over everything.
I just can’t deal with that
I can’t handle that.
And I stopped going to any family functions because I just can’t stand her. And she knows it.
Seriously if I knew she wouldn’t press charges and stick to them, I’d easily rip her hair out and break her nose.
I can’t. :raised_hands:t2:

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I’d remove that negativity in my life quick. I’d only do holidays if I had to. Her nonsense will affect your children eventually. Block her from your fb so she can’t disrespect your family

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Save your breath and cut her completely off.
You shouldn’t have to justify or reason with a person who is going to ignore you anyway.
Good Luck

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Give her the exact treatment & access that she gave you with your nieces/nephews… & when she complains about it… reply with “ I thought this was how it’s done, because nobody saw an issue when you did it”:smirk: that way you call everybody that’s enabling her behavior while letting her know you’re fully capable and aware of what’s going on. And send her the legal def of child porn when she lists nude pics of your kids … don’t be pushed around any longer because no matter what you do… you’ll always be The bad guy … so be the bad guy nobody will try to fuck over again :unamused:

  1. Block her on social media 2. Tell her if she doesn’t remove the nude pics of ur child off FB you will press charges (yes it can be done…been there done that) 3. Set boundaries and hold your ground even it means cutting her off !
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Cut her off. She’s toxic and has no place in your family or life.

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Honestly I can be like this and don’t even realize. Try to form a relation and try not to judge too much.

Most definitely CUT HER OUTTTT!

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Report the naked pictures and ignore her

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Cut her off! Just because she’s supposed to be family doesn’t mean she can disrespect you. Cut her off completely. Stand up to her and tell her to fuck off.