How should I handle this situation with my sister in law?

Do not let her anywhere near your children for the love of all things holy.

My sister in law is much the same, except she does all of this while simultaneously copying my every move too. I can’t even get a new hair cut without her getting the same one. She always thinks she’s very clever by using her own downfalls to insult me with. Basically everything that’s wrong with her, she uses as an insult against my own character, which is completely absurd to say the least. Honestly, I dealt with it for 7 1/2 years before she finally used up her last chance with me by accusing me of drugging my kids (I’m super skinny so I must be a crack head) :roll_eyes: She ended that accusation with a threat to call social services and just stopped dealing with her from that point on. My husband agreed that she crossed the line and we haven’t had anything to do with her at all since 2016. Her mom didn’t like it that she couldn’t make us let her around our kids so she cut us off for that. Since then they have both spread so many vile things about me to the whole family that only 3 family members (and it’s a big family) will have anything to do with us. My kids grandparents still haven’t met their grandson and he’s turning 2 in July. They saw us at a graduation once since then but they just walked passed these kids like they didn’t even exist. Family means everything to me and I’m not a bad person at all. I don’t understand any of this either and it’s incredibly hurtful. Last April I went to my best friends moms funeral and some stranger came up and asked me why I was bad mouthing her to my sister in law. She wants to destroy my life so badly that she’s even telling lies to people I don’t even know. I have never met anybody like this in my whole life and my step father was a murderer so I know crazy.

Block her and him from your social media and love from a distant don’t let her still your shine :heavy_heart_exclamation:

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Because she is a narcissist. Simple as that. And you can’t change or help those people. Step back, pray for her, but close access off to your life and child. Your peace, your family- that’s all that matters. She’s toxic!

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Cut her off. No explanation needed. If someone in the family inquires about it (she will play the victim in this too) just state the facts and that you both can no longer justify her behavior. Case close.

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Cut her off. She’s loppy

I’d tell her straight up…take the pictures of MY baby off your social media or I can and will press charges…and dont EVER post a picture of my baby again without my permission…then block her on here and messenger and on your phone…I would have Zero to do with her until she grows up and takes responsibility for her actions…I would blow a fuse if someone posted a picture of my child without my permission…

Cut her off her family just goes along cuz they been doing it a long time so just worry about urself and ur family don’t post anything that she can get a hold of and just live ur life

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I’d call the police and press charges for spreading child pornography. You wanna be funny? I can be hilarious

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It looks like she needs her ass beat

She is so toxic and non of you need that crap in your life. Cut her off and when she sits in the corner crying let her. I wouldn’t allow that bullshit around my children. I seriously feel sorry for her children.

Block her from your life ignore her i have been in this position and it will drive you crazy in the end I just pretend she doesn’t exist i don’t even knowledge her at all xxxx

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She seems like an attention seeker. Stop giving in to her drama.

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She sounds toxic and doesnt sound like she is going to change. It sounds like she wants her way and doesnt see what she does wrong. People normally wont change of they cannot except fault. I also believe that blood or not. If a person is toxic for your family. Cut them off.

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Cut her off for sure. Block her, don’t contact her and ignore her.

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OMG sounds just like my sister in law. I finally kicked her out of my house and had to call police on her. It’s been so peaceful for a month. My brother comes down but not her and I’ve never been happier. Get rid of her and be happy. Shes a insecure person and needs the attention

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Report the pictures as child porn. Poof, gone. As for everything else, well, what do you want more… a relationship with them or peace? Choose accordingly, because with that kind of person you will never have both.

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CUT HER OFF end of story. Make yourself and your family happy NoT Her!!!

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I’d cut ties with her… I really wouldn’t be able to deal with all of that. But I find it easy to cut ties. At some point, you gotta take care of your own mental health and that of your family rather than worrying about stepping on her toes. Good luck :two_hearts:

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There is no reasoning with a narcissist. If she can’t follow your boundries cut her out :scissors:

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