I am a single mother who should be on bedrest: Advice?

Last week I was diagnosed with a progestational hemorrhage at seven weeks pregnant. I have had cramping, sharp pains, spotting, nausea, and migraines the entire pregnancy. Shortly after finding out about the bleed and that I should be on bed rest, the baby’s father left us. I do not have a supportive or helpful family and no friends. I am raising my three other kids alone (full custody), so I cannot be on bedrest. I am also a full-time online college student while homeschooling all 3, one of which has autism. What should I do? I have never felt so alone right now; I am suffering every day and haven’t even been able to hold down food since yesterday morning. I am just really lost right now.

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Church family? Co workers?

Which state do you live? If you are close id help as I know what it is like to have no support either. May God Bless you and keep you all safe, happy and healthy :heart:

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Even if you don’t go to a church, reach out to a few in your community.

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Contact a midwife or gp they should be able to link you with support services. All the best

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Gotta be some kind of women support groups around. Where do you live

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Also call 211. They might have programs to refer you to. Also reach out to older children’s school.

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Im so so sorry that ur going through this…where r u located? I wish i could give u a helping :raised_hand:

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Reach out to the local social services in your area and request resources. You may qualify for free daycare for the kids during the day or home help.

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Try to find a supportive network - friends, family, his family if they are good to you. The hospital might be able to identify social workers or case managers who can come out and help. Sorry for your stress! I know our state has a program through health department that helps mothers.

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Contact social services see if you can get help, churches, any place that offers help even the local food banks might have information on who you can call, you could even advertise help needed.

Go to a shelter
Once your in there they help u get housing and a program that helps u pay for housing
Since u cannot work also sign up for food stamps and tang. Once u start working u could get free daycare or very low cost with dhs help.
I have a friend who was in similar situation and this is what they did.
Ur baby and ur health come 1st and seeing how u can’t work and need to be on bed rest u should put ur kids in online school to put less burden on u so u can rest and take care of urself.
If u have to move just hire movers. Don’t lift anything. :heart:

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You should contact your medical provider and ask for assistance.
Homeschool is a versatile thing. Now it’s the time to take a break and they can go through the summer if need be. Or you could try more independent work or educational videos from YouTube

Call Biden he has All the answers

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I’m so sorry you’re going through this. That’s very tough. I will pray that you can get the help you need :pray:

Message me i am now a stay at home mom my oldest goes to school and would come help you if you live close!

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Im praying for you and your family! Not much else i can do to help. I sure hope you get some help and everything works out for you!! :heart:

Can your kiddos hang out in your room on the floor and do school work and come up to you if help is needed? You can do school work from bed!

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Hey. I can be a text friend. If that would. Help you any. Honey. Just. Take it easy and beath. Lay down relax like the dr. Said honey. Tell your kids mommy needs. To rest. For thr baby and they have to help you. See how that works.

You have to find some kind of help. Did you ask your doctor?

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