I am insecure about my body: Advice?

I’m a mom of 2, and I’m so insecure about my boobs being small and looking like lemons lol has anyone had this problem and learned how to just love how your body is and not try to want more like others?

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Well i dont have any A_S either nothing i can do about that

You could look at the bright side At least you dont have to worry about saggy ole boobs🤷‍♀️

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Follow this account. She is so awesome and helps immensely with self-love.

Yeah you probably look amazing in a t shirt n no bra the bigger they are gravity hits as u age and if u wanna wear a t shirt n no bra you have to tuck them into your pants lol

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Push up bra or no bra :woman_shrugging:t2:

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Be happy with yourself!

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Mine hang to my belly, getting old is a part of life

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I wish I could tell you how to feel better and appreciate yourself, I myself struggle with body image and per other’s look great with clothes on. But I hate how I look with out. My boobs are my biggest worry. I keep telling myself I’ll get a book job when I’m done having kids so that’s my plan. Maybe by then I will just like my body.hahaha

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I have been a 30A all my life until I had my son 10 months ago. Everyone always says look at the bright side but honestly I don’t care to hear it. :sweat_smile: I had to shop in the kids section, I always had open space in my bra, NEVER could find cute v neck shirts, bikinis ect because nothing fits right on a totally flat chest. I never felt very feminine either because of it because I love curves. Also the bullying never ended. I’m a b now that I’ve had my son and I’m finally happy with feeling more womanly! Honestly after I’m done breastfeeding I’m getting a small breast enhancement! Not everyone feels the way I do of course but do what makes YOU happy! Edit: also Im sorry if this came off as rude at all that’s not how I meant it! I just have tried to be happy with them but at the end of the day that boob job just calls my name. :rofl:

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I will give you mine! Big boobs are no fun.

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Change something about yourself! And before any Karens come for me let me explain. Dye your hair, get a tattoo, change your wardrobe. Do something drastic and spontaneous! My hair is literally purple right now. PURPLE!! And I haven’t been this confident in I don’t know how long. As far as the boobs go try getting fitted for a new bra. Tell them specifically what you’re looking for and they’ll get you in the right one.

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The kind of partner that will judge you for not having perfectly round boobs is not the partner you want. Most women do not have perfectly round boobs. People spend thousands of dollars to get boobs like that because its not particularly common.

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EVERYBODY has something they would change. Sometimes you gotta just have your own back.

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They are what they are. But they are yours. So enjoy them, play with them, show them off! They are uniquely yours. No one else has that same pair. And ain’t a man around who wouldn’t want a gander. So celebrate you!

102 pounds, an a cup for bra size, size 1 for jeans. I’m here with you momma. Still trying to feel beautiful in my own skin. Know your children find you to be the prettiest lady in the whole world! Xoxo

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It all starts with what your telling yourself! If your saying in your head that your boobs are small & you see that as a bad thing then your body image won’t get better. You need to find the small things to love about them & give them positive words when describing them or when your feeling down. It all starts with YOU! Recognize that negative thinking, if you keep telling yourself negative things about your body then you won’t feel positively about it. Try recognizing when you have a bad thought about your body & replacing it with something else. For example. Negative thought: my boobs are small, New positive thought: my boobs are the perfect handful. It’s a journey but being comfortable with who you are meant to be changes so much more in your life too :two_hearts: & regarding caring what other people think. Majority of the people you meet don’t come home to you, they have never walked even a step in your shoes. Those people who spend all their life gossiping about others aren’t comfortable in their own bodies so they find things to nit pick on other people. Just be true to you, you have one life don’t waste it worrying about what everyone else is doing, being confident gives you a whole new type of glow :sparkles:

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I was 100lbs at 21 when I got pregnant and had 36c boobs. I was 145lbs when I had my son. But after having him I went back to prebaby size…decent curves. I’m now 28 and 38c and still a size juniors 9 waist but have bigger curves an weigh 155lbs and hate the extra 36 to 38 transition lol.

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Bigger boobs hurt your back. Speaking from personal experience. I wish mine were smaller

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U gotta learn to love urself babe…once u do…U won’t give a shit…!!!u have had 2 children…come on girl…!!!:heart: xxx