I am insecure about my body: Advice?

Girl!! Be glad as you get to shop for cute bras… when you get bigger, the cuteness goes out the window. You only get black, nude and white :roll_eyes:
Every now and then you may find some cute ones but they’re not cheap and most of the time don’t fit right… still makes your titties saggy. Plus, just to carry them around makes it hard on your back. Love your skin and who you are!! Nobody is meant to be perfect. We are unique in our own way. I mean my right boob is bigger than the other. I have to roll it up and stuff it :roll_eyes::woman_shrugging::wink:

I hated mine FOREVER. I was a 32C before I had kids. They took it all and left a mom pouch in exchange. I dyed my hair, I have tattoos and I’m learning to love my body. It’s a process! However, I have thought about a boob job but a lot of people aren’t happy after because either men only look at their chest and want them because they have big boobs or feel bad because they aren’t real :woman_shrugging: everyone has their struggles but your body is beautiful!! Maybe a slightly padded bra may help you feel better?

32AA here :flushed::weary:. BUT LETS TALK POSITIVE.

  1. I can sleep on my stomach comfortably
  2. No back pain
  3. Bra less days​:rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl::woozy_face::woozy_face::woozy_face:

I’m the CEO of the itty bitty titty committee. This is my natural body and anyone who doesn’t like it can piss off. :woman_shrugging:

I try to remind myself that I at least have some. I used to have c cups in high school up until nursing my second child. Now even while pregnant I’m part of the itty bitty titty committee and it’s sad lol.


Also, if it’s really eating at you on day where you go out you can always use contouring to make them LOOK bigger.

Girl we all have our insecurties even if u had big watermelon boobs youd be insecure about them i promise lol i am a 38 DD and 20 years old baby #2 and they sag so bad :sob: we just gotta learn to love ourselves :slight_smile:

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No one is happy with their boobs after having kids, and many of us are unhappy with our post baby belly and the cellulite and stretch marks too. We are all in the same boat, but we all feel like we’re floating on our own raft. It’s silly if you think about it.
Have your partner talk you up when you’re feeling down. He fell in love with you for more than just your boobs (I hope). You should be talking yourself up too, regularly. You can also work on the parts of yourself that you don’t like, if there is a reasonable and healthy manner to do so. All the while you can put aside a couple bucks a week and save up for plastic surgery. If you still hate them in the 2 or 10 years it takes you to save the 5-10k it will cost (or just the down payment anyway) and you haven’t gotten the personal results you’d like, get the surgery. If you have learned to love yourself, take a vacation, invest, buy a car, replace the broken HVAC – whatever you want. It’s a win/win.

It’s all about self confidence! U see a lot of young celebrities who rock their body’s n have hardly any boobs! I believe in natural beauty!

I’d give anything for me hooters to be smaller.Being large breasted is horrible especially in summer when the heat is horrid so trust me its not as glamorous as they make out to be.

Big boobs no fun…
Strain back…marks from bra straps, wire uncomfortable…
And when older fun really starts
Ohhh can’t find nice matching bra and panty sets…dress shopping a nightmare because different size on top and bottom…I wear lots of skirts…I only have 1 dress…

And here I am wishing for small boobs, be proud of them.

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I hate my body after having two kids. Im all lumps and bumps and my boobs are stupidly massive :sweat: my back is in agony 24/7 and I cant stand what I see in the mirror anymore. But fuck it. The kids are worth it :woman_shrugging:t3:

Honestly know people had boobs inlarged and had severe problems with them, true story had a friend that her dog jumped on her slowly over a week she woke up one day with one tit, she had to have surgery to replace it. Cost as much as both. Don’t due it. Buy padded bras that fit right you’ll be happier can be expensive but well made ones last years.


Girl I bet you are beautiful. It’s not easy loving yourself but it’s kinda amazing journey you take because you learn alot about yourself

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The beauty of small boobs is they don’t sag! I don’t like the look of implants. At 52 I have learned to accept what I have. I am also the mom of 2 and breast fed them both.


I have small boobs and I’m fine with them! I hate wearing bras so with small boobs I can easily lounge around in tshirts and hoodie and it just feels so comfortable. And if I ever want to enhance them to look bigger then I just invest in a really nice push up bra and it does the trick too!


It’s natural I believe. I’ve got 4 kids, I’m super fluffy, and huge boobs. I admire those that can buy a bra in any store. I find the best way to love yourself is to realize what your body has done. It’s given you a beautiful gift. As moms, we also teach our kids self love.

Girl I don’t know who you are, but embrace them lemon boobies. Go get a new sexy af bra and take pictures of yourself. Send them to your significant other, watch their mouth drool over the amazingly sexy body you have!! Your tatas are for you. Do what you want with them. Do whatever makes YOU feel good. Just know you’re an amazingly beautiful Mama, and you rock it everyday! :raised_hands:t2:


As a larger chested woman I can tell you that it is hard! Constant backaches, underwires and the side support “boning” cutting into you, straps digging in and summer underboob sweat are just some of the things I hate! Also god forbid you need to walk fast or run because you get winded easier from all the “movement” from the girls. Enjoy your size girl because bigger is not always better!

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Do you have a roof over your head? Food on the table? Family healthy? Now where are boobs on the list of a happy life? hmmm