I am pregnant and found out my boyfriend cheated: Advice?

Me and my boyfriend of a year are having a baby this may, and I recently found out he cheated…he made a new snap and talked to a whole bunch of girls, he had had the snap for a month when I found it. I’m not sure what I did to deserve this. I’ve been through everything for him, and I’m the only one working, only one providing for our soon to be family…he says he still loves me and wants only me, but my head won’t stop saying the opposite, I just need some advice

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leave him. co parenting works.

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He will do it again if you let him get away with it.

It sounds to me like the only thing he has contributed to your family is sperm for your baby. You are already supporting yourself I would leave him make a parenting plan and plan for your future.

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Leave him girl!! You have proven how strong you are already by holding it down for your soon to be family. You will be fine with that baby on your own. TRUST ME - yes it’ll hurt at first BUT you will heal and be so thankful you walked away.

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You can take care of yourself and your baby what do you need him for…

Leave him. Save yourself the trouble and walk away. Once a cheater, always a cheater. Best of luck!

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Leave. Hes not going to change.

Leave. Shit is toxic bbg

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I personally would leave. However, there’s always Counseling? There is something that created the insecurity in him. If you are still having trust issues I’d seek help. I never had this particular situation, but it has helped my husband and I beyond belief. I believe it assisted in saving our relationship and helped us to communicate in a healthy manner.

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Kick him to the kirb he sounds like a dropkick loser

My ex did that to me, and he didn’t stop. Leave him.

First of all. You did nothing to deserve it. It’s his issue not yours.and he sounds like a loser. You’re pregnant and he isnt working, and while he isnt working hes talking to and fucking other people…cheating was probably bc he feels worthless. As he should and some one made him feel worthwhile. But nothing you can do will make a man too busy snapchatting other bitches work on himself…he should have been using his phone to find work. RUN and as soon as that baby is born get something filed for child support and visitation, bc it sounds like ur gonna need it documented

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Leave him. Leave him now, or it will be alot harder when your baby is born. Seriously. It will hurt im sure for a little while but you dont need him and for someone to cheat on your while you are carrying life they helped you make is unfathomable to me. I went through this and i just really wish i would of left sooner. I wish you all the luck hun :slightly_smiling_face:

If you’re the only one working, obviously u have it handled on your own already. He’s taking advantage of u. Get out now before the child has to be in the middle of this already bad situation

If you let him get away with it he will do it again. And if you’re the only one providing then all he is, is a headache in the background. Get away from that POS.

Please don’t get married.

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Think long and hard over your situation. What advice would you give to your best friend if they had this problem? Lastly, listen to your gut, go with your instincts. Believe in yourself and you will do what’s best for you and your baby. Wishing you all the best.

WHY did you get pregnant? To trap him right?

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Also he probably loves your paycheck and support. Leave him.

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