I am pregnant and in love with two different people: Advice?

First be honest and pray on it (if you’re that type) always go with your gut instinct.

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Perhaps you should come back and ask this question if your S/O decides to stay with you!

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Clearly you do not LOVE your s/o if you slept with another person and ARE PREGNANT BY THEM… there’s a difference between being in LOVE and being in LUST … being in LUST resulted in your pregnancy… which I believe it would be best to do sooner rather then later… do it before he finds out some other way. bottom line is be truthful and accept the consequences of YOUR actions.

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If you left your s/o and got with another man then your not in love with your s/o. When you love someone you dont get involved with another person. Tell him the truth before he finds out some other way.

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I feel so sad for your significant other. If you love him do what’s best for him and let him move on.

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Hey there, i have been there message me to chat if you ever need to. I would give you advice but there’s so much judgement i rather talk you in a private msg

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It’s not my cup of tea but maybe potentially ask for an open relationship or ask for a more conclusive awnser to your break from one another

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Good luck girl … It will workout

If you were in love with the first there wouldn’t be a second . Perhaps it is time you work on finding out how to love yourself first then decide .

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Maybe your ex will be cool with everything and your daughter can still have him in her life if y’all are comfortable with that. It might work out better than you think, cause the ex might not be surprised if he knows you guys had a relationship when the roommate moved in.

Maybe you could have them both. You know like brother husband’s. (Like sister wives) :woman_shrugging:t3:

Everyone is so harsh. Whatever ur s/o decides to do when u tell him the info is up to him. U can’t make him stay with u. I wouldnt stay if I was put in that position.

Get a puppy, it will save you alot of stress

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Get professional counseling

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You fucked someone else on a break. You cheated and need to face the consequences of your own actions. Marry the guy with the car not the one that will get you pregnant and have you taking the bus

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Quit being sluty and tell them the truth it will work out

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I’d say decide whom you love the most and go from there. You might also write down a pro and con list of each guy and try to figure a course of action from there. Your daughter is going to be impacted no matter what you decide.

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Be up front and honest with him. Who do you have stronger feelings for? He’s in your life regardless because you have a kid together.

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You said your SO is great with your daughter, and you don’t want to take her out of her home. That should answer your question. Confess to your SO about the baby, and tell him you want to stay with him. Then both of you tell the other person to move out, if the SO wants to stay together.

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Focusing on yourself didn’t mean neglecting your duties as a parent and your SO and screwing your roommate and then getting pregnant. Go get your big girl shorts on and come clean with the people in your home.

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