I can't get over my ex: Advice?

Since since my baby daddy left me I cnt get over him it seems like am obsessed so I need some ideas on how to deal with the separation

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Move on go on Dates. Get a hobby or find a friend or a someone to call when you are feeling down

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A hobby, time to heal, and reunite with friends

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Just remember, he’s an ex for a reason. Keep yourself busy. Find a good friend that will help you.

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It just takes time. keep yourself busy and focus on your babies.

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find a new man… when woman are interested in someone new, the old ones that aren’t meant to be don’t seem as important

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Quickest way to get over a man… get under another one :wink:

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This will sound lame but go on a dating site to distract you lol you don’t have to meet anyone but just chat

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MUSIC every time you feel sad out on a song that lifts you up it’s what I did I did sometimes listen to sad songs too as it’s good to reflect and soul search!!!

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Taking your ex back is like trying to put poop back in your butt. Let it go.

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Do not rebound. :roll_eyes: focus on you and your kid(s). Time heals all wounds.

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Don’t jump into another relationship serious one. Some women need another man some don’t and enjoy being single if you have kids they are your top priority, first and foremost.

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I would delete all pictures of him so you don’t find yourself looking through the pictures of the two of you or him in your phone & getting upset. Reconnect with friends and family. Keep yourself as busy as possible with your little one. Maybe look into dating apps etc? I would defiantly file child support on him. Don’t let him get away with not providing for your baby. He’s still the father! Best of luck mama

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How to get over it? Concentrate on self. Begin to love yourself again. U attract who you are …

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Keep yourself busy. Go out with friends. Family anything to keep ur mind occupied. Get a haircut

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Easy. Focus on YOURSELF.

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It takes time and it doesn’t happen overnight.

When my college boyfriend dumped me, I ended up moving back home with my parents. It was humiliating. I was 27. My nights and weekends stretched out in front of me and I dreaded going home after work and being alone. So I got a waitressing job. It kept my mind occupied and it allowed me to save up money quickly so I could get the heck out of my parent’s house quicker.

For me, it was doing whatever you need to do to keep yourself busy so you’re not dwelling over the past. Work has always been therapeutic for me, so that was what saved me. But it may be different for you. Sign up on an online dating site or app. Join a sports team or running group. Join a gym. Take a cooking class. Whatever you’re interested in - do that.

You will find peace again.

And block them on all social media too. In this situation, ignorance is bliss.

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How long has it been? It once took me 3 years to get over an ex

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I had to be sad for awhile when I left an ex. It sounds repetitive but just go out, find a good bar girlfriend and karaoke or something. I stayed single for awhile had my tears and had my fun but once I was in a place I didn’t miss him I could finally focus on me, and it turned out me was pretty great on her own.

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Take your ex back is just like you taken trash back :woman_shrugging:

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