I have been with the father of my son on and off for the past three years. Well, we recently got back together after being split up for about six months. At the time, he was with another woman for the duration of our split, and he left her, saying he wanted to work on being a family. Two months in, I leave out of state with our son to visit my sister while she gave birth to my niece. A few nights ago, I received a notification from my motion detection really late at night. I decided to check it and came to found out he was talking to his ex. I called him, and he denied the whole thing, said it was a video he was watching. I eventually got him to confess and said he was only expressing our relationship problems to her and also apologizing for leaving her heartbroken. Do you think this is a reason to leave? I donāt trust him at all because of this, and I feel he may be lying about the extent of things. Thank you.
āYou canāt love if you canāt trust.ā
I just went through this. Leave
Girl wtf. Leave. Why is this even a question 
women will put up with the most ridiculous, disrespectful shit. It makes me so sad.
Itās time to make you happy. Being in trustworthy relationship is important for your childš. Donāt wait to be broken
Pack your bags and high tail it outta there.
Apologizing to his ex is one thing but venting his relationship with her is unacceptable.
If this doesnāt say something to you than check the phone record. If u have cameras check the video. Scope out social media, them, their friends, coworkers if you know.
A picture or solid evidence is worth 1000 words.
āYou canāt trust himā
You said it all right there. And please donāt fall for him telling you he invited her over to talk about you. Donāt get played
Believe me things never changeā¦
You know exactly what to do
You deserve better!! Heās playing both of you until something better comes along!
Wash your hands and move on!!
Please donāt stay with him hunā¦I got out of a 25 year relationship with my sons dad bc I felt stuck! Their will be someone who will love you and your son! Love yourself first! The right one will come along and love you! All of you
No you canāt trust him just went threw something similar and at the end of the day he getting both of you heās a player
Itās a maturity thing
Not even worth the time or effort!!! Drop him like a hot potato!!!
Red Flags Flying High For You To See 
Run run fast as you can No trust no relationship
Leave and donāt look back. Not a damn thing is going to change, this guy is manipulating and using you.
He shouldnāt be going to an ex with issues about you ā¦ Iād walk away
Leave he will do it again and again and your the only one hurt thatās facts he will always entertain his own needs