I don't think my relationship is good for me: Thoughts?

I’ve never done this before, but. I think my relationship is causing my life to go downhill. Since I moved with my bf, I’ve been unable to receive medication for my depression and anxiety, and suddenly stopping my medication causes me to have these attacks of severe crying and other negative stuff to myself during our fights. My bf also is always angry now and spends all his time off of work on his video games. Usually, I support this as a game lover myself, but now we don’t spend time together anymore. And on the games, he gets snappy at the littlest things, and I always end up crying. I’m starting to feel really unhappy, but I want things to work. I get shamed for wanting flowers and romantic surprises; now, I’m given up on things I even like. I’m so lost.

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Suddenly getting off any medication like that is dangerous! You don’t say why you can no longer get it but, you need to find a way! Good luck!

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Why can’t you take your meds living with your BF?
You were prescribed them for a reason.

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First get back on your meds

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Why can’t you get them?

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If you were your own best friend, what advice would you give yourself?

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Go. Run like the wind and take care of yourself honey. Get your meds and a new man who is worth your energy

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Why can’t you get your meds? No meds that you need is your big issue

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Why did you stop getting your medicine? Maybe your first step is to get back on your medicine and go from there.

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you already know the answer to this question. Open the door and put one foot in front of the other.

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Your bf sucks, he should be putting your mental health first. Sounds like hes not grown yet.

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Go to a new Dr and get back on your meds. Maybe then things will fall into place

You need to figure out if your bf is behaving that way because you’re not on your meds or if that’s just who he is as a person. Why would you be unable to get your meds? Get them. Take them. And leave if he still behaves that ways. Dont make excuses. Just because you want it to work doesn’t mean it’s meant to.

Sounds like my relationship… He basically just plays games 24/7 unless we go to eat or something… And follows all the slutty girls on IG… :roll_eyes: I hate it and am usually depressed even with my meds… Try to get meds and see if it helps and if not just leave.

As a mom and mimi aka grandmother. You need to make yourself number 1.

I went through a similar situation and it got worse as time went on, I got stuck and waited for him to leave me. I wish I would’ve got out sooner, it would’ve saved me a lot of heartache. And going off your medication is so dangerous! Get back on it, get back in a routine, you may see some changes in your relationship. I would also try talking to him about it. Nothing changes if nothing changes, and if it doesn’t, I would take that as my cue to move on.

Do yourself a favour. Close your eyes and speak your story. Tell it to yourself. Only you know what to do and you already know what to do.

Get back on the meds ASAP you CANNOT stop those cold turkey. As for the bf, he’s supposed to be your biggest supporter. The world is hard enough without you having to come home and have to deal with more b.s.?? No. Start thinking more about yourself. This is a just a red flag of things to come with him…

Leave . Find someone who knows your health matters.

If you’re feeling this way you definitely should get out of the relationship.

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