I don't want anymore kids but my spouse does: Advice?

How did you make your other half take you seriously when you tell them you don’t want any more children? When we got together, I had my son from a previous relationship and recently gave birth to our first child. Throughout the whole pregnancy and even now, he makes it very clear he wants one more. But I’m honestly done. This pregnancy really screwed me. It wasn’t easy, and I’ve told him 100 times that a third isn’t happening, but he tells me it will… How did you make it clear to them that it isn’t happening? Thanks.

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Well doesn’t seem this is going to work out so then the next guy tell him you got your tubes tied

Kids don’t get erased when things don’t work out

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It’s your body. Get fixed or get the shot or pill. If you don’t want another one then don’t. You can’t get any clearer then that.

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Get a tubal ligation, that should convince him!

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Tell him that he needs to take your health seriously because it is not him that gets pregnant. He should respect you as his wife.

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Get your tubes tied!

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Get your tubes tied.

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If you are serious,have your tubes tied

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Have them tubes burnt, not tied. They can come undone.

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Get a seroget. If you cant afford one, then tell him you’ll get pregnant when he can.

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Adopt or a surrogate?

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You’re not his incubator so…

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I have two boys, my man needs agirl cheeeiiii

I went through this! I had my tubes tied, clamped and burnt…I wasn’t taking any chances. I told him it was my body and we already had 2. He never forgave me and years later cheated, I kicked him out and he fathered 2 kids with the new gf and then died.

If he wants more and you don’t then let him go be with someone that will give him more if he’s serious about having more. Don’t lie about being on the pill or getting “fixed”.

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You need to talk to him with a professional in front of both of you… not asking in social media how you need to deal with something so important for you not having another child and at the same time something so important to the person of your life like having another child… get professional help…

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Get a dog or a cat. Technically a fur child but much easier to look after & your children will have a pet. Win win. :blush:

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Get your tubes tied.

Your body, your choice.

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Go get yourself a mirena IUD. Last years. Or the underskin implants. He wont know . Tell him to have the next baby himself.

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