I feel betrayed by my husband: Advice?

Unacceptable behavior. Bye to his ass! Ex’s are ex’s for a reason. Move on.

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Awww… this is so sad and must be so hard for you. I would either have him leave if possible or you leave. You deserve better. :yellow_heart:

Just do what you can till you can get away because thats stupid. Not faithful. Hes cheated once.hell do it again and you have seen the signs im sorry :disappointed_relieved:

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I’m afraid that from what I’ve read, your best bet is to run, or boot him, ASAP. The longer you wait, the worse it will get. Don’t risk an STD.

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I agree - start trying to make plans & saving up.

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Once a CHEATER always a CHEATER!!!

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Cheating starts with concersations like this. Let her have him

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Pack his stuff and throw it outside! If he don’t come get it light it on fiya! :joy:

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Throw the whole guy away. You can do better.

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Call them girls, to come pick him up from the front door

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Sorry you are going through this. Not really sure what to advice coz everything is so tricky now with covid but you defo need to give him a fright like move all his stuff into another room and tell him your done. What he does next is up to him. He will either realise hes making a mistake or it will push him closer to her. Either way you will get your answers and can start making plans about your next move

My ex husband was always messaging old girlfriends etc behind my back and also have several dating apps in his phone. I hated it and hated him for it. And the times he said he would stop etc I still didn’t trust him, eventually I got rid of him. Now I have to suffer with trust issues.

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Message her and tell her if she wants him come get him and he can go live with her.
What he’s doing is not okay

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Omg im so sorry to hear this mommy❤. Im in the same situation now, caught him 4 times in the last month and hes still lying, never once said sorry or show empathy towards me, thinks everything is a joke. Been together 8years, very far from family, and this covid thing doesnt make it easier. Wont be easy though to pack up with 3 kids, but one step at a time. Thinking of you and strongs❤

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When people show you who they are, believe them. He has ruined lives in the past, and you gave him the chance to ruin yours and your child’s. Start making plans to leave him (may take a year or more of research, contacting lawyers, etc.)and don’t tip your hand, or decide you want to stay married to a philanderer. Get tested for STDs.

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Play your cards right and get a PI to get evidence first

You don’t say weather you work and could take care of things on your own. If not, you need to decide what you will do if he does leave. Surely you have some family or friends that can help you. If not you can find a women’s shelter that will help you. God bless and hope things turn out the best for you and your child.

Honestly… It’s worse if she does know about you and continues the flirting. Personally, I would contact the woman and let her know he is married with a child. She may very well have the respect to back off. Either way, he has shown no respect to you and it will continue, if not with her someone else, until he is ready to be faithful. I’m speaking from experience and I can’t let go of my husband. My heart won’t allow it. You have to make that difficult decision of whether or not you can forgive him, or if you can walk away. Best of luck to you!!

This covid is nothing we all have to die oneday i wil never sit back and watch nonsence if he cheat i go to my family 4ever coz wen he see u stay he wil keep on doing it agai and again gor ur childrens sake go to ur fam coz men cant change no mater wat they say men wil be men

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This kind of guy makes me sick, my ex husband was just the same. Do what I did, ring, write to this woman, introduce yourself, and tell her all of his shortcomings, remind her that his conversation with her excluded the fact that he was a father and married. Lay it on thick. Waggle your little finger! Tell her she’s welcome to your leavings. And then Kick him into touch! Once a liar always a liar.

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