I feel like my husband is inconsiderate of the pandemic: Thoughts?

We have been married now for six years, going on 7 … And I feel like he is so selfish and inconsiderate. We have one daughter and a baby on the way… With this pandemic going on in the world… he finds it very convenient to just interact with people with wear a mask, and I constantly have to baby him and remind him to sanitize… I am so over having to talk to a grown man more than talking about this to my 4 year old… I told him that he would move out and go stay at his mother’s house. I will not put myself and my baby’s lives at risk of getting anything… Just yesterday my aunt died due to covid. His dad was diagnosed as well. He is constantly seeing people close to use dying because of this, and still it is so damn ignorant… I am considering having a divorce coz I can’t deal with a selfish person like this. I am over it!.

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Wow. You are ridiculous!

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That’s awful about your aunt, but you sound completely unbearable

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If i was the husband i would be the one filing for divorce.

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Protect your family…he is a moron

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Clearly his family isn’t his top priority. Selfish people are the worst.

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Your inconsiderate as well, and sounds as if your quite controlling. You sound ridiculous

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Your only looking out for your family and he shud know better. Selfish man.

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Would rather live than to hide!!! Everyone has an “end date” in this world & I refuse to live in fear!

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Let him live with his mother, make him understand. As a husband and a father, he should not be putting your lives at risk. He should be the number one person to know that.

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Ha ha ha, getting a divorce over not sanitizing.

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I’m sure this is not his first act of selfishness and incosideration…no matter what’s going on. If your not happy leave…but remember…you will split a family unit and have to share time with your kids. They will be with you half the time sanitized…and half the time with him doing whatever he thinks is necessary.

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Toss him out with a bag of masks, hand sanitizer, and say sorry I forgot I was married, scram.

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You need to get a grip.

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Wooooooow…you sound immature and controlling. Wanting to get a divorce bc your husband chooses not wearing mask half the time or sanitizing his hands. Yeeeeahh you reeeally love your husband don’t ya? If you’re wanting to get a divorce over something like that you need to reevaluate yourself

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That mask isn’t going to save you. research that sanitizer and all ingredients. Life is a gamble,grab reality.

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If he gets sick that will put her and the unborn child and their child at risk and in harm’s way it is not too much to ask to sanitize more and social distancing is in effect. But maybe a divorce is :pinching_hand: much… me and family stay home social distance my son is home schooled. We sanitize everything even when we purchase or answer the door…it’s the new normal and not too much to ask especially your partner and people need to think BC the pandemic is still on going.

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WOW!!! Sorry you have a husband that is only thinking of his self!!! keep your children safe and you God bless :heavy_heart_exclamation:

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As a person who has had Covid and recovered. It is definitely not something you would want to have while pregnant or have your child get it. If he doesn’t want to protect the household. Send him to his mom. It’s not being unreasonable it’s being cautious. Take care and stay safe. :heart: Some people don’t realize how bad it is until they get.

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Divorce him and give him the kids so they can ALL be happy and you can go elsewhere to continue being miserable.

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