I found a suggestive message in my husbands phone: Should I confront him?

So the other day, I had to use my husband’s phone for something, and while I had it, I made the classic mistake of snooping a little bit. I found a message to some girl that apparently lives someone where the weather is cold, so my husband responds with, "I’d love to come and warm you up " obviously, I am upset about this. The message was back in August, and from what I can tell, there has been no more contact since then, but it still bothers me. I want to talk to him about it, but I also did a bad thing by going through his phone. Should I just drop it or what??

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I’d totally confront him.

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I would be angry . 100%. Fuckin rights…

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Me too I’d confront him too.

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Probably because the rest were deleted… and ya confront

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No confront his ass! I’m sure he snoops n yo shit all the time.

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In my opinion I wouldn’t confront him until you find more evidence. Because if he is doing that stuff he is doing it regularly any might be smart enough to do it in Snapchat or you can’t see it. There are all kinds of ways to hide apps on the phone. That was totally inappropriate and he 100% was flirting sexually with another woman.

Not being honest is what started this. A woman always seems to know when to look though. I’d just own it dear.

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I would break that phone over his head and see if hes still offering warmth around.

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Confront… that’s what I did with my husband when I narrowed his phone to message someone on Facebook since mine was dead, found where he had talked to a woman telling her about our problems, about wanting to take her out to eat, and even about moving in with her…

If you found one, there were others.

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So you being Snoopy since then… ? Confront him… Get it out of your system

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Confront him. Just because there are not messages that you can see, does not mean they didn’t continue talking. Social media, email, calls.

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Confront. My soon to be ex husband did the same shit. Swears he never slept with anyone, but over 2 years talked and exchanged pictures with many woman. Confront him

Definitely confront him.

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Yeah he’d definitely catch these hands and this fly mouth :rage:

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If you don’t say something it will eat you up with jealousy. And by snooping, I’m guessing there were trust issues already. You know what to do.

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Confront him for sure

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Heck no you shouldn’t drop it. I would be irate if this was my guy because one thing leads to another and hes talking to another woman as a single man which he clearly isnt.

I would definitely let him know what you did was wrong, but what’s done is done. Then talk to him about the situation. Speak from the heart not from anger. How would he feel if the situation was reversed, would he find it acceptable? Be prepared for the outcome, if there’s an emotional affair it needs to end. If he’s not willing to cut off the communication you have to understand what you’re willing to do.

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