I found out my husband cheated and I do not know how to handle it: Thoughts?

If you could post this anonymously. How do you handle finding your husband of 8 years having online affairs and sending these women hes never met thousands of dollars in a 3 week period. How do you handle seeing the way he put you down to these women and the things he said to them especially seeing as I’m already going through post partum depression as we just had our second child 5 months ago. Do you think forgiveness should even be an option or should I leave.

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Personally, I’d be gone already. Know your worth hun.

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Hell no. Leave him honey. He doesn’t value what he’s had right in front of him. You and baby deserve better

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Leave that ungrateful douchefuck!!
Seriously cheating on you, wasting your financials AND making you out to be the bad guy to the side pieces? Oh hell nah. Leave babes. YOU’RE BETTER THAN THAT SHIT

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You should absolutely leave.

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I don’t even know why this is a question in your head. Definitely leave. Better life for you and your children with someone who loves you. Life too short bot to have that

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Starting to think some of these posts are bogus and it’s just fishing for womens reactions.

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No respect no relationship

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The cheating I would say is enough to leave as is, but sending THOUSANDS of dollars to other women?!? I…I have no words… let me just say first of all, I am so sorry you’re going through this-- nobody deserves a significant other like that, save yourself & those kids hun! Get outta there!

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My husband of 18 years. Cheated on me with his cousin ! He left me for her ! Save yourself !

I just went through this . He even recorded a drug infested 3 some i had the privlidge to see . I didnt have kids with him and i was not financially dependent on him . So its very easy for me to say leave . But i say leave .

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If you decide to stay just know your relationship will never be the same again, you will always question his loyalty. It’s best for your own peace of mind to leave.

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Leave…when you are safe you can deal with your own problems…suggest he gets help…if this is a sudden change in his personality he may have depression …but take care of yourself and babies first

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Hasn’t he already disrespected you and your child enough already?

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No absolutely not, you and your baby deserve so much better, kick his lying, cheating ass to the kerb now, before it’s to late.

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I think you already know the answer…

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It’s easy to ask others what you should do, it’s easy to say leave but only YOU know the right answer for YOURSELF. You need to ask what important to you? Please never speak bad or put your children in a position to choose between the two of you. Many blessings for the right answer to guide your life.:heart:

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Walk on…make a believer out of him.

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Let me tell you what ya gotta do, you sit him down you look him dead in the eyes, and you tell him to eat a dick, then go about your merry way without that prick.

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Take your time and plan your escape. Tell him nothing. You owe him NOTHING. You owe yourself and your children. Protect your babies from having a destroyed mom

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