I found out my man has only fans: Thoughts?

I need some advice, mamas! I just found out last night that my boyfriend (been together five years and have two kids with) has fans only account where he has been paying another woman for nudes and videos I don’t know what to do I haven’t said anything to him yet because I don’t even know how to approach this situation! To me, it feels like cheating, and it feels different than if he was just watching porn or something. One of the girls he met through Snapchat. I guess I just wanted to get some others opinions…

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Sit down and explain to him why that is not okay. I agree with you. Porn is one thing. But paying a person for pictures is not okay.

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Put his ass in check and if he doesn’t see the problem kick him to the curb.

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So whats he doing on snap chat then too? Bye bye loser

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To me only fans is just like a porn website where you can also get personalized stuff from someone. But to each their own.

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Definitely different than porn…paying for nudes of other women? Why? :weary:

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Definitely not okay.

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Kick :clap:t2: his :clap:t2: ass​:clap:t2:to​:clap:t2:the​:clap:t2:CURB​:clap:t2::clap:t2::clap:t2:

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Personally I feel like watching porn is one thing and am cool with female sex workers (do what you gotta do sis), but knowing that he personally connected with one of the females and was paying for her nudes would have me concerned. I’d just confront and talk to him about it. Communication is always key

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Shove your sneaker up his ass

You’re an adult. Sit down with him and explain your feelings, like an adult. Have a discussion about what you both are expecting going forward and repercussions for continued behavior.

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Absolutely 1000000% not okay.

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If he had to hide it from you he’s not being faithful

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I would classify that as cheating you feel different for a reason trust your gut instinct

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Cheating! Completely different to him watching porn. I’d pack his shit n leave it outside. Bye

Leave him . i got my second childs dad on porn. Talk to him one time n found out two more times. So i told him to leave

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If it walks like a :duck: and quacks like a :duck:
Bye!!!

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Porn is free and available. Fine.
PAYING for another woman in any way is cheating.

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Oh so he spending yallsss money on another broads nudes… give him a taste of his own…

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Definitely talk to him about it. I’ve expressed to my fiance that I wouldn’t like him to ever join for obvious reasons. Watch all the porn you want but hell to the no are you paying a female to do shit.