I found out the guy I like is married: Thoughts?

Tell him to make it clear that he is leaving g the wife before you get to far into it with him. I was on the other end of this kind d of situation & I found out later he was in fact cheating. He told the woman we had split, and was getting divorced. We didn’t. I gave him another chance. Because I didn’t want our family broken up. The guy you described sounds like my husband. I ended up kicking him out for a week last year & he hooked up with the woman he swore he had nothing to do with. So be careful.

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How can he be the nicest guy you have ever met? When his a liar and a cheater I’m confused

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If you know he is married then why is this even a question or a discussion? Leave him alone, don’t be a home wrecker. He is a POS and hopefully his wife finds out.

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you are just a side chick, tell him to get a divorce then you will see him-if he cares-will be a divorce

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Girl he’s married. Stop.

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Run! Regardless of what he says, you’re always gonna be the side dish.

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Message his wife.
I would have immediately done that the moment I seen that and seen her profile.
Not (go hang out with him)
He is very much married.
No don’t be a side piece or a home wrecker.
If he cheats WITH YOU he will cheat ON YOU.
I think you did more than just “hang out” with him and now have having an internal battle with yourself.

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So ur gonna help break a home to make one? Ur JUST as bad as him
U know that old sayin…u lose them how u get them…

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Message his wife and let her know what’s going on. If he’s not lying and they are separated it won’t matter. If they are still married and living together she has a right to know he’s pursuing other women.

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Omg stop makin excuses for this man! Its an act girl u don’t mean shit an neither does his wife! Why would u do that to another woman? He wouldnt have chased u if he was a good guy hed leave his wife fuck ur dumb

Dude he is married. He’s not trying to sleep with you because he’s still sleeping with HIS WIFE. Find someone who’s emotionally available. Otherwise you’re in for a fkn ride.

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Course you move on his not yours to have his married run for the hills

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Hes married…like wtf.

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He’s married, leave him alone because he’s a cheater and dishonest he should have been honest upfront and you are a side piece.

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Girl, pi*s off. He’s married

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Surprise! The guy wanted to cheat is saying his wife is crazy haha …

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Does anybody know what marriage is supposed to be about anymore?

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Girl why is this even a question?! If it walks like a duck, and quacks like a duck…its a damn duck! Leave his married ass alone before his wife beats your ass :rofl::rofl:

He’s married. Move on.

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Bottom line - he’s married. He can be the greatest guy in the world BUT he’s with someone else. My advice - you need to walk away and find someone more worthy

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