I have anxiety and this guy I like has been ignoring me: Advice?

I’m just downright depressed at the moment and so confused. I really like this guy. We have known each other for a while. A couple of years maybe. We talked for two days pretty frequently. Then yesterday I texted him, and he said “not a good time right now, sorry” so I gave him some space. I texted him again later that night saying hi, and he texted again, “busy sorry can’t talk right now” after a couple of hours again, I started freaking out like wtf is going on. He kept saying he was busy but, then I saw him posting stuff on Facebook and commenting on posts so clearly he wasn’t busy. I saw him doing that all day. When I text him, he wouldn’t see my messages, and I snapped him on Snapchat, he would open them but no response. I have really high anxiety and depression, and this is just making it worse. What do you think I should do? I really like him. I want to know what’s going on. Telling me to “give him space” “stop texting him” isn’t gonna help, especially with my anxiety!!!

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asks for advice
already says the good advice isn’t going to help.
Ok. :weary:
He isn’t interested.

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Back off! No one needs to cater to your anxiety and depression. You sound smothering…

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Sound like a stalker…if he said leave him be…then leave him be…just because someone is on facebook doesnt mean the are not busy…

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People make time for who and what they want to make time for. Nobody is ever too busy. READ THAT AGAIN.

He isn’t interested. Move on. You deserve better. Focus on you and finding ways to cope with anxiety.

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You answered you’re own question. If he was interested, he would make time.
Sounds like you’ve been reaching a lot and that can come off as needy. Slow it down. Don’t wait for him. And don’t text or snap him.

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You got put on the back burner. Your only options are to wait till hes done with some other chick or realize you came in second… and drop it. I’m not trying to sound harsh but anxiety or not, hes not interested. Getting in his face wont change that.

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This is called mamas uncut. Mamas being the key word. Not teen drama. #sorrynotsorry.

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You sound 14 … worry about school and not boys.

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I would move on. I’m so sorry this is happening to you though.

Has he given any indication that he likes you back? Just because you’ve been speaking doesn’t mean he thinks of you in the way you want

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You’re letting your insecurities get the better of you. Should probably address that before getting into a relationship.

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He’s dodging a bullet right there :flushed:

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Put your time into something valuable, not someone who isnt interested. When someone asks for space, you need to respect that or you will push them away teal quick

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That isn’t a relationship. That’s you obsessing.

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I totally get the anxiety and over thinking but try occupying yourself with other things. He will reach out when he wants to talk and if he doesn’t that just means it wasn’t meant to be. Dont take it personal and just keep living life. Every day is a blessing.

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If he wanted to talk to you then he would.

So on to the next you go

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Take a hint. He’s just not into you

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You’re sounding like a stalker. Leave the man alone and not just for “a couple hours”. Leave him alone till he reaches out to you. Respect people’s boundaries. He’s probably not into you. Move on.

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If u have anxiety and depression that bad that some guy ignoring u is causing so much drama u really need a doctor for some anti-depression meds and/or a counselor. Leave this dude alone. If he wants to talk to u, he will. Obviously he doesn’t

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