I have some real issues in my relationship and I want advice on how to fix a toxic relationship

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Get out. Process it apart, and don’t look back. Safer, and saner, in the end.

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Get out while you can!

The last goodbye is the hardest one to say…

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Totally depends on level of communication. You can’t change how they behave or react, and if they are unable to see the toxicity or they dont feel like it matters then GTFO fast

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You can’t fix toxic!

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Can’t fix it. Get out now!

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You don’t fix toxic. You can’t
fix stupid. Cut your loses and walk away!

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I had to leave. I went through 6 years of trying to get him to change. Never did. Im sad that hes gone and i still love him, but i know its for the better. Nobody is going to tell you but youre going to feel really lonely and want to take them back. DONT. That just shows they can still be toxic and you will take them back. I wish you the best either way with what you decide. Good luck!

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If it’s toxic, why stay? Leave and find peace with someone who encourages you to be the best version of yourself. You can’t fix broken people and it’s not your responsibility to do so.

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You can’t fix a toxic relationship. I’ve given my ex chances after chances to clean up his act and all I did was become just as toxic in my own way.

Turn around and never look back

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You can’t fix a toxic relationship. Just leave is the best thing.

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Leave im in the same position. Cant fix got to leave it alone to get my peace back​:pray::pray::pray:

U dont. U run as fast as u can

Get out don’t waste on more second with that toxic person

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Leave hun. Save yourself the time and energy.

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Everyone’s saying “you can’t fix toxic” but that’s not entirely true. We’re all capable of being toxic, in a broad range of different ways. But to fix it depends firstly on HOW it’s toxic, because some kinds of toxic can’t be fixed. The ones that can will take a LOT of brutally honest communication and a ton of personal work and growth on both sides.

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I got a dog…a dog is a better companion

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Yes! Leave before they break you! Is a hard thing to do but we are worth more!