I just found out the father of my kids has been lying to me: Advice?

Can I have an anonymous post, please? So yesterday I found out that my baby daddy been lying to me me and him has been trying to work stuff out, and I found out he been talking to other girls and even a women who married and I feel horrible now bc I got mad when I saw the message where my baby told one of the girls that I was b**** and lier and abusive, and I was a wh***, and I didn’t think when I did it, but I messaged the woman husband bc I know the women husband but I told him his wife been sexting my baby daddy he told me not to feel bad or sorry for telling him but did I do the right thing or did I do the wrong thing by telling bc I was mad at my baby daddy for playing with my feelings and lying to me and telling those women lies about me

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I would want someone to tell me if my s.o was messaging someone else sexually.

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I would want to be told as well.

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I would just cut ties and be done. Not worth it.

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Good for you!
Why are you stressing? You didn’t cheat or lie…your man and the other female did!

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You should have took a screenshot and sent that as well. Fuck them both.

Why are you with this lying, cheating SOB?

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I would tell him too.

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Leave him. Tf. How disrespectful of him.

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I would just leave him alone. Better off without him obviously! He will always be that way. Nothing you say or do will change his ways, so just wipe your hands clean of it and do you momma!!

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I would Definitly want 2 b told.

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You did the right thing. I was cheated on and many knew and NOONE told me until I did my own work and found out. Many of these relationships are for ever destroyed including my in laws due to this bc I no longer trust them. So good for you for telling that lady’s husband he deserved to know.

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I would want to be told. & as for you & baby dad, tell his ass to kick rocks.

You did the right thing. Now move on without him in your life.

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You should ALWAYS tell. Always. Can’t stand a “if she only knew” ass girl. I will 100% of the time tell. Even if they don’t believe me.

Nope throw em all under the buss👋🏼

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I think u did the right thing no one deserves to be cheated on!

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He deserves to know the truth. If someone was doing that to me I would want to know

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You did the right thing. No question about it.

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I think you did the right thing

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