I just had a c-section and my husband doesn't help me with anything: Advice?

Last week I gave birth with c-section I’m staying with my husband, he still expects me to do everything in the house.he does not have time for us he is always on his phone. On Monday we had an argument then he told me that I’m no longer attractive. He can’t even kiss me.I’m heartbroken. I think he does not love me anymore I need advice as should I just go or stay…but the thing is that I don’t wanna be hurt.

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You will get hurt more if you stay

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Sounds like a piece of shit…

My daughter ended up with an infection because she was doing too much after her c-section.

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Divorce. Ask a close friend or family member for help. You shouldn’t be with someone like that. He sounds toxic.

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Staying would be hurting yourself more honey. You just had his child. If he isnt there more for you most now he doesnt deserve you at your best

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Get him out…he sounds like an asshole

Divorce and find someone better

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Never depend on a man I did everything five kids 3 c sections ur the women u need to do it all

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I could not get out of bed because the incision hurt so bad…mine used his legs and pushed me out of bed…Girl RUN! Throw the entire husband away…You got the wrong one. Just think about when you get sick? Who going to care for you and baby…game changer!! RUN-Now

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You said it yourself. You dont want to be hurt. Dont let yourself stay in that situation. You and the baby are the most important things. And if he doesn’t see that, you have to go.

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Just remember you are the most important person to yourself and your baby right now. Don’t over exert yourself, you will end up with an infection. Love yourself

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Leave him, you are worth way more than that. You and your baby.

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I had two c-sections and if my did that, he would be gone!!!

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You stay where you are. He needs to go.

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If hes already telling you your unattractive after just giving life to your child, to him you should be the most beautiful thing ever… if he already feels this way, how do you think hes going to feel when you guys get old…

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It’s going to hurt but leave!

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how much clearer does the situation have to be??. If you need a hundred people telling you to leave your gonna be one of the ones who stay .

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I feel that if a man isn’t helping you immediately after giving birth, he’s not a man I would want to be with. It will only get worse. And with him flat-out saying he isn’t attracted, I’d be out of there.

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Go stay with someone who can help you out while you heal. The rest will fall in place accordingly i bet. If he doesnt contact u while ur gone to check on you or babes. Theres your answer

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