I left my boyfriend a few days ago and I just found out some new disturbing information: Should I trust him with our daughter?

So a couple of days ago, I sent in my story about me finding out my boyfriend cheating on me. It was a videocall of a girl showing her ass. After five days, he contacted me. Basically, he didn’t think he was wrong because I told him in a fight five weeks earlier that I didn’t want to be in a relationship with him anymore. But I said that out of anger, and that’s what I do allot, but I don’t mean that, and he knows it. Then he called crying, saying how sorry he was and he wanted to fix it. He said he talked to this girl for six weeks; she also lives in another country, so they never met. But I was already done with him; i didn’t want him back. We both have our own house, and I also make my own money. Yesterday I brought our daughter to him. Everything went good. I left, and he kept texting me that I should come upstairs so we can talk. I said no. Later I went home, but something told me to check his mail. I saw that he also had another unknown male. I hacked that one, and it was connected to a facebook account. I saw conversations between him and his aunt of 47 or something. These are not normal conversation. They had a very sick internet relation. This started while I was 5 or 6 months pregnant with our daughter. I honestly don’t know what to say. He and the aunt treated me if I would tell people. I told the rest of his family anyway, and we are all in school. I don’t trust him with our daughter alone because he treated me, and maybe he doesn’t want to give her back. I was already done with him, but this takes everything to another level. I’ve been living for six years with this guy, and I always thought that she was just a normal aunt. He never wanted to go there; she lives in another state. I always said we should go and see her, but he never wanted to. Now I know why. I’m sorry for the bad typing I’m not from the USA.

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I don’t think I would trust your daughter along with him I mean if you don’t have an order where he has to see her then I would not let him take her. You never know if he’s going to bring her back. And you don’t wanna have any regrets about this. Also if he’s having relations with his aunt Miss is not the kind a guy you wanna trust around your daughter if he has no problem being with a family member if you know what I mean. I would not have anything to do with this guy I would not let your daughter go with him alone Unless he has a court order that’s my thought on the whole thing

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wowww. there is alot going on here. i’m not sure of my stance yet, i’ll come back and read this again after i think about it for a few minutes

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I wouldn’t trust him to be alone with your daughter. Supervised visits only.

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Unfortunately, you can’t just keep him from her without a court order. I would get a lawyer ASAP and tell him everything you know. And, what your concerns are. Good luck!

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I feel like y’all are both toxic and need to go seperate ways. Set up visitation through court and coparent as per court orders and be civil for the baby you share.

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I can barely comprehend this gibberish… what exactly did he do to cause trust issues with him being alone with his kid?

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I got lost after the Aunt part .

What do you mean he treated you? I’m so confused.

I think you need to report the relationship between him and his aunt. I’m not sure where to go about that at all though. Because if he never wanted to go and see his aunt maybe there was some form of abuse going on? I agree about him cheating I would leave him after that… but the aunt thing gets to me. Something isn’t right there. I think maybe you should take him to court. If you have proof of the messages between him and his aunt, you can request for him to be evaluated by a psychiatrist I believe and make sure hes okay. And until then limit visitation with the kid.

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Get your child keep her away till you make a court date, tell the judge everything ( show the messages) and go from there. If he can be incest with his aunt online then who’s to say he wouldn’t try with his own daughter. This is sick and I hope he gets everything he deserves…

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Wait… He had sexual talking with his aunt? Am I reading this right?

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Drama :roll_eyes: whoever he likes or talks to is none of your business if y’all are not together… all that you said… I did not read a good reason for you to keep his daughter away from him

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Well i don’t see why you wouldn’t trust him with your child just because he’s into other women. I’m missing something. I’m thinking because you said gee had am inappropriate relationship online with a supposed aunt that he won’t see in person. Are you sure that’s even really his aunt.? People use alias when cheating. I had someone tell me his ex gf was his sister n law when in fact it wasn’t it was an ex.regardless frm what you saod they never met and its online. I wouldn’t relate what grown people do with grown people to him doing anything wrong with your daughter that won’t hold up in any court.

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As wild as this is unfortunately can’t keep a child from him because he has that relationship. It sounds like you’re both a little immature although he definitely trumps the issue part of it all lol 

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You hack his email and think you have the right to act superior than him? You have some issues you need to work on. You told him you were done with him. Maybe he finally took you at your word? You can’t know what he thinks. You are done, so be done but quit doing illegal things that WILL be used against you in the upcoming custody case.

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Do you know for sure that she’s actually related to him, and that he didn’t lie about who she was to you?

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Wait…so he’s in a relationship with his aunt?! :thinking:

If he is trying to have sex with his aunt, and you found really disturbing conversations between them, I don’t blame you for wanting to keep your daughter away. Take him to court. He’s a sexual deviant looking for a thrill and I wouldn’t trust him with children.

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A woman can come on here saying she found child porn on her man’s computer and women will still comment “Oh My GoD dOn’T kEeP a MaN’s ChiLd FrOm HiM!” So many of us had mothers that let us get molested, and our mothers were idiots like ya’ll.

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