I ma leaving my boyfriend who threatened me and I need advice

My B/F and me have been together for five years and ten months. I am leaving him on the grounds of the threatened to hit me in front of our child. Had also threatened me without her around. Guilt-tripping me into having sex. Downgrading me and wishing death on family mine his own. Telling me can’t change useless I’m going be there when he is done. Unfortunately, I warned him I was going to leave. I resent him, I still love and care about him, but I don’t want to be with him. He keeps begging me to be there or take him back. I don’t feel as if I can move past it. Plus, he broke up with me two weeks prior to me breaking up with him. He told me his grounds were because it’s hard for him to do this as in being the only one working, but my mom helps me her choice with around 100 a month in food or household items. Plus, I get food stamps not happy about it, but okay. I have applied for SSI. I also need back surgery. So he couldn’t see us having a life. I told me he’s been thinking about it for a year. Like that didn’t hurt. Told me he lives life like a 65-year-old man. Runs parties after work, of course, while I keep our child 24/7. Can go anywhere be gone till 2-3-4 me not to call him to see where he is. I have been asked to take him back, and I’ve told him, no, but he will not quit what do I do.

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Run as fast as you can… don’t look back

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keep saying no… and run far far away… sounds like a loser…

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Leave him and dont look back

Good 4ustick to it don’t be a Lott

Get out of there quick

Stop all correspondence with him except for info on child. File child support. Apply for housing. He will never change.

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Leave him, don’t ever go back, and get the cops involved if necessary. If you stay, he will eventually beat you or worse.

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It’s time to leave sweetheart.:v:

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Emotional immaturity of this level in an adult man’s body can be a dangerous and painful situation. Leave, and when you’re gone from him, stay gone.

If he is having a hard time supporting you financially I suggest you get a job.
If you aren’t happy, you should leave, but you will still need to be able to support yourself. Foodstamps don’t buy diapersz

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Run away as fast as you can

If you need to ask this question, you already know in you heart what you should do. Take your life back!!

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Don’t look back I waited to long and it’s been 10 years and still won’t leave me alone there is still time run and don’t leave ask the cops to come and help you if need be but please don’t stay

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Move on and don’t look back

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Sorry I meant don’t look back

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Stop all communication except when it’s about the child. File for custody and get whatever help that you qualify for. That type of person will never change. He will beg and beg and claim he’s changed and he will be awesome for a tiny bit and then revert back to the old ways. Get out!!

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Knock his head between the washer and dryer

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Leave him, file a police report and restraining order and child support. You and your family come first. Don’t let it get worse since his already putting his hands on you

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Don’t do it!!! Get an exparte and don’t put your child through this!!! The children come 1st!