I think I married my husband to soon: Advice?

I have a question, and I need advice my husband and I have been married almost a year it’s been ups and downs, but we always manage to work things out. I love my husband so much, but I think we got married too soon we only knew each other for three months before we married, I left my life in Maryland to relocate to Tennessee where he lived, he does everything for me, but there are a few things about him that I don’t like, the way he talks to his mom is atrocious, he sometimes talks to me in such a demeaning way that it makes me sick to my stomach when you don’t do things the way he wants he can be the meanest, nastiest person you ever want to meet on top of that he has gotten physical with me twice, he doesn’t feel like women should think for themselves and that men should do the thinking. A lot of times I am disgusted with his views on women Lately things have been going pretty good between us, but I am still on edge because he can go off at any minute, he tells me things like I need to forget about my kids because they are adults and to focus on him and me which will never happen because I will never forget about my children, he has no relationship with my kids at all and he doesn’t get along with a single person in my family on top of that he has mood swings one day he is good and then the next he is angry or upset, I don’t want to end my marriage, but I am getting to my breaking point. help

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Hes probably bipolar

You don’t want to end your marriage with a man who abuses you?! Good lawd :woman_facepalming:t3: go seek professional help please.

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He’s a piece of :poop:- dump him

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Yes thats too soon…you cant possibly know someome in 3 months!

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If he treats him mom that way , hes gonna treat you that way!!!

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Get out the physical aspect will only get worse!!

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Run while you can. He will eventually become more abusive.

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Pretty self explanatory what ya need to do

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He sounds like a real psychopath , never would I allow a man to tell me to forget my daughter , oh hell no ! My daughter is the BEST part of my life !!!

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Time to hit the road and put that mistake in ur rear view mirror. He will NEVER change.

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Hes a monster get going

He should be checked for bipolar disorder, he may have behavioral problems and not know it. You can always try marriage counseling to try to make it work.

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You’ll have a good idea of how he’ll treat you, by the way he treats his mother.

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counseling. It’s the healthiest way to get through this and answer your cry for help. Marriage is difficult and since you’ve only known each other for 3 months before you got married, marriage is a huge learning curve and you’re still getting to know each other.

Leave before it gets worst!!!

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Hes only gonna get worse. You can not change him. He sounds like a narcissist.

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I stopped reading at got physical with you twice, real talk. Run away girl!

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Why wouldn’t you want to end your marriage.:thinking: This man is NOT going to change. This is who he is. See you got married during the honeymoon of your relationship, now you’re seeing the real him. Run, run fast and don’t look back. :woman_shrugging:t4:

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Sounds like you should run. Quickly.

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