I think I saw my best friends boyfriend cheating: Advice?

I think I saw my best friend’s boyfriend out in a bar one night with another girl. But I am not entirely sure if it was him. It looked like him, and my best friend told me he came home late that night and she had a bad feeling. He didn’t tell her where he was or what he was doing and was being incredibly suspicious. How should I handle this? I am 75 percent sure that this guy I saw was him with another woman.

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Stay out of it unless you’re 100% sure

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You aren’t 100% and no proof.

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I’m gonna agree with the first comment I would say what you saw but be sure to be clear you’re not 100%. If they have suspicions already then their gut is telling them something and I bet you did see him

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I realize you want to protect your bestie but you need to leave it alone & stay out of it until you have undeniable proof (videos, pics, etc) that it was him with this other woman.

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Get proof. Don’t ruin your friendship

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You need to make absolutely sure it was him before you do or say anything, it really might not have been him. It could cause a lot of damage for nothing if you are mistaken. If you do say something to her tell her you arent completely sure it was him.

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Stay out of it. Snitches get stitches. If you tell her anything she will accuse you of trying to break them out. You will never convince her otherwise.

She will figure out the rest

Nope wouldn’t say anything unless I was absolutely sure. He would probably deny it and you would loose a friend.

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If you have any doubt keep your mouth shut. Keep your eyes and ears open.

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Just think vice versa… If your friend saw your man with another woman as your bestfriend you would hope someone reports this to you… If theres the slightest chance that his cheating on her, you wouldnt want your best friend to be with a man like that…

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Id tell her. My friends kept something like that from me for yrs. When I found out that they knew and never told me I felt betrayed and extremely stupid.

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Talk to him or stay outta it

I would tell her exactly what you just posted. Tell her not to freak out because you are not 100% sure. Maybe she needs to start watching carefully what he is up to.

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Honestly, I wouldn’t get involved! You THINK it was him is a whole lot different than It was DEFINITELY him! She needs to be the one to catch him in the act! She can assume he is being unfaithful but she needs to be the one to find out! Getting involved is like opening a can of worms … jmo

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If you arent 150% then dont say anything

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Fk that TELL HER !!! I dk what kind of ““best friends”” yall got but my girls and I got each others back my ass would have walked right the hell up to him and whoever at the bar like HI WHERE’S SO & SO. Would u want her to tell you ??? I know i would want u to tell me

See, I’m that best friend that always has my phone ready. Take the pics to zoom in to make sure. If it’s nothing and not him delete BUT if it is him, I just hand my phone over and be like, “what’s the plan”?

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Call that mother fucker out!!