I want to leave my husband and just need to vent

I just need to vent anonymously. I’m so ready to leave my husband. But I have to plan for it. I’m a stepmom. And I’ve loved his children like my own for several years now. But y’all, he is horrible. He’s cheated on me. We went to counseling for it. But things didn’t stay good. He is who he is. He’s said some awful things to me while we argued. He yells, curses, hits things. I don’t trust him at all. And I’m so upset because I do love the children. But I’m young, younger than him by several years, and I’m over the shit. I’m ready to leave. I just have to have things in order first, and it’s so difficult. I just needed to vent about it.

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Leave & live your life , omg u wont regret it !

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Leave & find your peace! Those kids will always love you and always find a way to reach. They will be 18 soon if not already. You can still have them in your life.

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Prayers and love ur way

Please do it ASAP. Life is not meant to be miserable. Sending love & light.

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Good for you…you deserve sooooooo much better. Never forget that!

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Get out of it! Good for you for recognizing the red flags

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Leave him. You have nothing to lose but everything to gain. You can find someone else with no children and then have a kid with him.

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Talk with the kids. They know more than you think. God Bless.

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The best thing to do is get prepared. You’re on the right track. He will try to get you back with his stories about the kids. Just leave and perhaps never look back.

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Just get out find A good man
That will take good care of you

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Congrats to u girl n make moves! You’ll def be happier in the long run

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Sending love and support​:heart::heart: life is too short to stay miserable

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He sounds narcissistic…therefore will not change. Leave now. You can get things" in order " away from him. You can see the kids on the other side of the fence if they want and he allows them. And keep this in mind…Once a narcissist…Always one. They never change. Look it up and see if you see him in the definition. And women abused by one…and see yourself. Oh! Yes…you are being abused now.

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Life is just too short for that. Make the plan and stick to it before it’s harder to “get out”

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Don’t stay if your not happy.

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Leave and never look back

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Do not stay for someone else’s kids been there done that def not worth it when they can be ripped from u anytime anyways. I’ve had a bad experience and would never get that close to someone else’s child again not even a friend. Good luck get out and be happy! Life is too short to live miserably

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Get out now before you end up with children by him and are stuck with him forever in that way. Yes the kids would be a blessing but no need to put babies through that.
His kids will be fine. And maybe somehow you can be in their life once all is settled.

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:cry: so sorry… stay strong and leave when you can… best of luck! :two_hearts:

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