I was invited to my sons birthday party thrown by my ex. But my ex in-laws dislike me: Should I go?

I was invited to my son’s birthday party this weekend at his dad’s house but not sure if I should go or not. Me and his dad get along fine, but I just had a big fight with my ex in laws. My sons dad says his family won’t be there (they’re mad at him too over the fight) I’d love to be there to celebrate with my son even though I’m having a party for him the following weekend, but I’d really like to avoid any conflict if my ex in laws decide to show up. Would you go?

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Ummmm…that’s YOUR son, of course you should go. Your son would benefit greatly from healthy relationship between you and his father regardless of the circumstances. Breaks my heart when people can’t coparent.

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Definitely go! It’s great that your ex invited you. Your ex in-laws should stay out of it.

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Yes you go that’s your son. Screw what the ex parents think!!!

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Ure not going for them its YOUR SON

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I say you go I think you would be good for your son to see you two co-parenting and getting along.

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Just go forget them your there for your son

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Yes. That’s Your child

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Your son so yes! Your ex in laws can go pound some salt… it’s YOUR child!!!

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Definitely be there for YOUR SON

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I mean you were invited. Its not like youre crashing the party. If they make a big deal your son will see who’s intentions are true to him. I’d go. If they make a scene just keep your composure and remind yourself that youre there for your son. Nothing else

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I would go it’s for your son be there for him and have a good time

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Considering he is YOUR son, yes I would go. As long as you and the ex get along, that’s what matters

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yes, your baby comes FIRST.

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That’s your son, suck it up and go , he’ll only be this age once

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Thats your kid. [email protected]!

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It’s YOUR CHILD. Excuse my language but. Fuck them. Go.

I’m not missing my child’s party for anyone

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Even more of a reason to go now :joy:

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Umm he is your son also!!! And if your ex invited you go!!! Idgaf about my ex family Sarah Diveley

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