If an engagement fails who gets the ring?

I want to keep the ring but my ex has forcibly taken it. Is there anything I can do?

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Why would you want to keep it?

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Let him have it & move on. Best of wishes.

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I would say let him have it, but I’m a peacemaker too.

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I’d say give it back to him. If you happen to have children together already, sell it and put the money in their college defund.

Rules of engagement: if you end it, he gets the ring, if he ends it you get the ring.

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I’d definitely let the dude keep it if he wanted it.

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If she breaks it off he gets it back. If he breaks it off she keeps it.

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The ring is a symbol of the relationship working.

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If he bought it it’s his 🤷

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Give it back and don’t be petty

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If it was given as a gift, you keep it.
Had an ex buy me a new phone and when we broke up he wanted to take it back.
Long story short, I got to keep it. And just put the service in my name:)
But if he took it, move on and pray and laugh at the next girl he gives it to​:joy::grimacing:

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The ring isn’t yours until your married. If you split before he gets the ring. That’s what I was told when my ex husband and I split and he tried to take the ring.

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Why would u wanna keep it? My ex never asked for it back so I sold it lol

I gave it back to him. I wanted nothing to do with it. He gave it to the next girl. Then the next (who is now his wife). :woman_shrugging:t3:

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Its a gift. So who ever is the receiver of the gift can keep it.

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Goes back to whoever’s purchased it. I wouldn’t have a use for one if I kept it, you wouldn’t really want to use it with whomever you do end marrying I wouldn’t think…

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Depends. If it was in his family it goes to him. If it was in your family you keep it. If not in either family whoever purchased it keeps it

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It’s his in all honesty

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His…why would you want it anyway

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