Is it normal that my daughter got upset that she thought me and my husband were being intimate?

My 10 year old daughter got super upset the other night because she had her suspicions that we were being intimate. She was slamming doors and I went to check on her and she was yelling at me demanding I tell her the truth cause she “knew we were doing something” She said ever since I told her about the birds and the Bees she does not want us doing that . Is this normal ?

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Lmao shes 10 and finds it gross thats all…my 7 yr old wont kiss his dad good night anymore because he seen him kiss me on the lips lmao

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Yeah that’s normal would you want to think your parents were messing around :rofl:

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Lol my husband is 30 and still gets bent out of shape at the thought of his parents getting it on :joy::joy::joy:

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Shes 10 shes gonna think its disgusting lol i still say ew when my parents talk about it lol

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I used to get super pissed at my parents for even kissing or hugging. It grossed me out and made me mad to think they were making more babies than just me and my sister lmao. Grew outta that obviously considering I have 3 of my own kids now lmao.

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Help her through her issues but it’s normal

Did you make it sound like something taboo or wrong?

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Being upset is one thing but a 10 year old screaming at her parents and slamming doors?

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Shes probably embarrassed

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Normal. My daughter caught us once. She hated any contact between me and dad at all for a long time. Just kept talking to her about it and whatnot.

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Not sure slamming things and screaming about it is normal. Not wanting to think about your parents doing that is normal but getting angry over it to me that I find that odd

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She might feel embarrassed So she takes it out that way

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Just wondering why a 10 year old would know about birds and bees :honeybee:

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My son is 50 and still doesn’t want to know nothing lol

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Being grossed out is normal, but demanding answers and slamming doors is not okay. You need to make sure that she knows that behavior is not acceptable. Tell her if she wants to know something it’s okay to ask in the right manner.

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Thinking about your parents doing the deed is gross at any age. But screaming at y’all & slamming doors? Negative batman. At the age of 9, my mom gave me a period talk & when I was younger than that, a talk about where people shouldn’t touch me. I didn’t have the “birds & bees” conversation until middle school (age11z13) & just bits & pieces at a time. Sounds like u may have had that conversation too soon with her if she’s acting out that bad afterwards.

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Idc what reason, in my house, you scream at me or slam doors you are in trouble. But hey while you are grounded we have more than enough time to discuss your feelings that led up to those poor choices.
My kids would say “because we don’t want another sibling! That’s why!” Lol

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Being grossed out is one thing. Slamming doors and demanding to know what you were doing is another. Personally, I would have told her it was none of her business and not to slam another door in my damn house.

It might be a jealousy thing honestly. I used to get sooooo mad at my mom when I was a kid for that. It was dumb, but she always had bf after bf and I just tagged along.
Maybe try spend more one on one time with her. Plan a weekly activity for just you and her.

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