Is it selfish of me to not want to share a birthday party with my daughter?

I have not had a birthday party in 4 years. My hubby thinks I should have one, so I chose a “tea party.” Now my little girl wants to have a tea party too, but the bad thing is she wants one with me. SO I guess what I am whining about is, is it wrong for me to want a part of my own and not share it. We are only eight days apart in our birthdays. I could really use the help mamas.

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Is this a serious question?

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This is ridiculous. You’re a grown ass women. Let your daughter have her party with you.

Umm… adults.still have parties? lol… my 30 was my last

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No, you are NOT wrong. I gave birth to my daughter on my birthday and now it’s our birthday. I’ve only had two Birthday celebrations separate from hers in 14 years. Blessed to have the best gift in the world. Yall are 8 days apart, keep em separate for as long as you want😊

I think it’s okay to go out with your friends for your birthday but a tea party???

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And didnt have one in between then and my 19

Have 2, one with her, one without he🏧

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Yall are bashing this woman and she shared her body with her child for 9 months!!! Ley the woman have her own something!

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Don’t have the party and break your kids heart, that seems like the best idea. :roll_eyes:

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You sound like a child yourself, havent had a birthday party in 4 years and i dont wanna share with my daughter. Thats pathetic honestly, grow up :ok_hand:

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Why not have her party earlier in the day and have the “adult” party in the evening?

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You should definitely share your party with your kid. She just wants to be close to you

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‘I have not had a birthday party in 4 years’ :joy::joy: Are adult birthday parties a regular thing in some places? :thinking:

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No you’re not wrong. You are more than a mother, anyone else who is shitting on her can gtfo

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You are totally in the right It’s your birthday and you’re the mama you get your own party. If you were a month apart, is it right to ask to share? No. My dad and i are 4 days apart we got our own parties

Boo fawking whooo!! My oldest bday is day before mine and I havnt had cake in13 yrs … it no longer bout me its bout her now and I’m cool with that… btw u STILL have a bday and get a year older :roll_eyes::roll_eyes::roll_eyes:

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You’re children are only little for a small amount of time IF ONE OF MY DAUGHTERS WANTED A BIRTHDAY PARTY WITH MINE YOU BET YOUR SWEET BEHIND MY BABY IS GUNNA GET IT! Grow up when you’re 50 you can have your very own golden girls tea party!!!

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How old are you?? I haven’t had a birthday party in 40 years. Grow up

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Have the party with your kid and your own party :woman_shrugging:t2: