Is it true that once a cheater always a cheater?

sounds like your his second choice and since he cant have her he is settling for you sorry to say :sleepy:and yes he will especially if she wants him back

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He only wants you back cause she gave him the boot. Get a backbone and move on and find someone who will treat you better. And you just happened to find out about this. Probably not the first time it has happened

Why be second choice?

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My ex husband was cheating from 2010 to 2017, he’d stop when I found out and confronted him; he’d cry he’d change. Finally realized he wasn’t going to stop and we started the divorce paperwork 2017, took almost 3 years of him trying to manipulate the system and prolong it. Next month will be my one year anniversary of my divorce :champagne:

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I believe with God everything can be restored

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Once a cheater always a cheater

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If she’d ever wanna come back, he would totally followa along. Don’t be a second choice. How are you gonna go on and do all that while being with you and with kids in the middle. Like come onnn. He only cares about himself. Cuss honestly if she hadn’t cut things off with him, they’d still be going at it.

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can i file for divorce on someone else’s behalf

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So because she left now you’re good enough? No I wouldn’t put up with that.

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He loves you until the next broad comes along… in my experience once a cheater always a cheater… especially when you keep taking him back

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This is way more than cheating. I would get out ASAP

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I wouldn’t stay with him. He is only with you cause she broke up with him and he still says he loves her. And not only did he cheat on you he cheated on her and who knows if he’s had any others. Maybe some can change but it doesn’t sound like he’s changed at all. He just doesn’t have any other options at the moment so he wants to stay.

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It sounds like all the advice is correct
… I believe he does need help… maybe his “love” got unwired with the loss if your child. Maybe his behavior is to avoid feelings. That also means when it comes to you… if you let him stay I would affirmatively demand counseling

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So your the rebound in the relationship, when you should have been his top priority of making you happy not another woman.

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No. I know this for a fact. People make mistakes. You can inbox me if you want.

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Be no ones second choice. Send him on his way.

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Why would you stay? He was planning to leave you for someone else until she changed her mind. You’re the second choice he is currently trying settling for until the next “better thing” comes along. You deserve better.

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The second she decides to take him back, he will leave. You don’t want someone who will choose someone over you. He’s only with you because she left him. Trust me you don’t want that. He will cheat again, especially if she takes him back.

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I’m confused he was willing to leave you and his family for another women he says he is still on love with. He also says they still have feeling s for each other so are you just waiting on them two to get back together or for him to find another woman after you possibly have another baby and then leave you and your kids then? Help me out cause I dont understand.

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If he left her to be with you and your kids, it’d be one thing. But the woman he lied about, had an affair with, then flat out told you he was going to move in with, but still wanted to have his way with BOTH of you. Girlfriend says f that and leaves, so he has no one and decided she didn’t want him he may as well stay with you, but can whine and cry and say he still loves her but please forgive me. NOPE, he can go find a different chick to play house with. You and your kids don’t need that crap.

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