Is it wrong of me to ask my husband not to come home on his lunch break?

Is it wrong for me to ask my husband not to come home every day for lunch. We have the same lunch hour and some days I just want to turn up the music and relax , clean. . When he comes home he eats and just looks at his phone. I work two jobs, so some days that hr is all I have to myself. Is it wrong to ask for even a day a week.

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Why can’t you do that when he’s there? Just pretend you’re alone and blast your music😂 I’m sure there’s more than one room in the house he can go play on his phone in.

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Im sorry but what lol. What does him sitting on his phone affect your peace of mind ?

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Yeah it’s for sure rude

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Your a one sided person wow

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That’s his home too. So yes, you’re essientially telling him hes not welcome in his home.

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If it really bothers you then just talk to him and explain how you feel

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We all know what she CANT do naughty naughty

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My hubby gets butt hurt and still shows up I’m like ughhhh.

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Put ear buds in and go about your business then? It’s pretty rude to ask him not to come home and eat lunch.

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Idk if he just looks at his phone can’t you go about your business and do what you want. Also do you work at home cause you could stay at work or in your car instead. I never really understood why people go home on their lunches unless they work literally next store but I mean he does live there so it’s kind of not nice.

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Uh yeah. He lives there too.

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Think he’s entitled to go home when he wants if that’s his home too… He might not like you being there?:joy: works both ways hahahahaha.

Why wouldn’t you want them to come home and have dinner with you?:confused:

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Are you seriously asking this? How rude and disrespectful to your partner. It is his home too

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That’s kinda of selfish …maybe

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That’s not why a marriage is. You don’t get to pick and choose when it’s convenient. Yes, it’s wrong

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Yes. Yes you’re wrong.

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I kinda get it cuz when I’m cleaning and my man is just sitting there looking at his phone it bugs the crap outta me, but maybe he can sit somewhere you don’t gotta look at him lol everyone deserves a lunch break they enjoy and if he wants to sit on his phone and relax in his house he should probably be able to but if you wanna clean and not be annoyed and that’s what makes you happy during your break maybe you guys can find a middle ground ?

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If he’s just eating and on his phone its not like he’s disturbing you. If you need alone time sit in your car and listen to music. Its his home too.

You don’t say if he works two jobs or lots of hours too. It’s unfortunate that you work two jobs and aren’t interested in spending an hour a day around your husband. I suspect you may need to evaluate that.

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Yeah it’s wrong. That’s his home too. If you want to have personal play time, just say that. :rofl:

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