Is it wrong of me to ask my husband to be home at a certain time?

He sounds like a true ahole Seriously.

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Divorce his ass. He is playing you

Sounds like he’s cheating.

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If you have to question it. You know the answer.

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Sounds like he’s cheating

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Duuuuude … I have lived this. Just signed my divorce decree last week. 17 years of marriage to a “man child” narcissistic a hole that never once attended an appointment nor fathered his children. Always found other things to do that were more important. Ice fishing, chopping wood, manicuring the lawn, smoking pot, drinking, ect. Always found something more important than his responsibility as a father and husband. I wish I could say it will get better. After years of years of putting up with it, marriage counseling, being up front with my feelings and concerns and physically making myself ill with the stress of it all I finally said enough is enough. I wish you well and the power of courage and strength to get out of this as soon as you can. Sadly, he has already shown you where you and your children stand.

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That’s not a husband, that’s an immature man child. Live your life without his input, he will either see what he is missing or take himself out of the equation. Stop wasting your time and your life stressing over his selfish acts

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If he is unemployed he should not be gone UNLESS he is looking for jobs, which normally ends at 5pm…

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Whew it sounds like there is more to this story! There are obvious signs of shady stuff going on and a lack of boundaries and expectations!

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If he’s unemployed, then he has no reason to be gone all day. He should be at home doing something to contribute. Have a come to Jesus meeting and let him know that this changes or he’s gone.

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You need to meet someone new… A REAL MAN… Sorry honey

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Talk to him. He is your husband. he should help you with your kids especially if he’s not working. He can spend all day with other people than his family? Something is wrong with him that’s why you need to talk. I would be really upset if that is my husband and he’d be out of our lives if he does that!

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Just get up early before him and leave the house go pamper yourself and come back when you feel like it.

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This guy is a loser I’m sorry is he your children’s father? Even if he isn’t biologically speaking he still took on that role when y’all got married. He isn’t even working so he should be doing everything he can to support you and your family by being there for all of you every day. He has to be up to no good, cheating, drugs something’s not right there.

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Rember your WORTH! Kick him to the curb🔥. Sounds like you’re on your own anyways. Seems like a cheating man child. …NOBODY has time to entertain that. Best of Luck👌

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Sounds like you just need to kick him to the curb. It’s not like you aren’t raising the kids and caring for the house yourself anyways.

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I well pray for you and the kids you have to have talk with him about helping and time with his child and with you too because it two way street not just one way street.l well pray for you guys .

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Leave. Let’s be real, it’s not like he’s contributing anything to the relationship anyway if he’s never there. Find yourself someone who actually wants to spend time with you and your kids and will treat you all right instead of like nuisances.

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I’d ask for help. Tell him exactly how it is. Also I bet it’s hard with both of you not working and I’m just curious as to why he’s not working?

Wow, talk about a completely selfish ass!!
Not answer your call, he has children at home, what if its an emergency??
He needs to get his damn priorities straight.
A grown man with family does not need to be out all the time hanging out. On occasion everyone needs a break but not all the time.
And the double standard is completely narcissistic.
You may not be able to leave right at this moment girl but you also need to get your own stuff in line to because you should not rely on a man that could care that little about his wife and his children.