Is it wrong of me to ask my husband to be home at a certain time?

No way in hell I would be with a man who wouldn’t work. That alone is strike 1,2,&3. :no_good_woman:t2:
More less him running the roads and laying up all day. NOPE :-1:t2:
Get rid of him. SO much stress will come off your shoulders.

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Sounds like a disrespectful teenager!! No thanks.

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That man is using you

Put his butt out completely

Quit raising a husband . And I find nothing wrong with any of those request and why are you supporting someone unemployed I mean every where is hiring and something is better than nothing . Quit raising a man child and love has nothing to do with this nor does controlling . Love yourself and put heathy boundaries and timelines for him to get a job

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get rid of the loser your doing it by yourself anyways !!!

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Sounds like he’s just looking for a place to go home to at night. Don’t give him that option. That’s not a family.

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Nooooo honey .What you need him for?

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That is neither a man nor a father.

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It sounds like he is out partying! Why should he be able to stay out of the house till even 9! Doesn’t he spend time with his children? You’re kidding me with this, right? I mean you have got to know you don’t have a marriage or husband! Move on, he obviously has! Sorry

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Sounds like he’s cheating

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Sounds like he needs to get a job. :face_vomiting:

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He may be depressed. Trying talking to him. There may be mental health issues. Depression due to not working etc

It’s wrong that you even have to ask.

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What the hell is he doing all day? Leaving before 7:20 am and not coming home until midnight???

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If you’re gonna be single, be single. If he dont wanna be there then I would tell him don’t come home at all. I get every now and then but not daily. If you want to be a family, then he needs to act like it. If not, why have the extra to worry about, cook for, clean after, etc.

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Sounds like he needs to go back home to mummy hes obviously needs a good kick up the ass to grow up i wouldn’t put up with that id tell him he either makes time for his family or dont come home at all

Girl you need to just take care of you and them babies. You don’t need that man and it sounds like he really doesn’t want to be apart of y’alls life. I’m so sorry you’re going through this but it’s better to let go now instead of staying in it longer and getting hurt worse.

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If he isn’t working and he is leaving early like he would be going to work and not coming back till midnight don’t u wonder what he is doing I would think he is with someone else I’f he isn’t works and your home with three kids he needs to be there spending time with his family …sounds like to me he don’t wanna be around and if he didn’t he would be gone you deserve better .

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And like you said, he doesn’t want to be there, so don’t give him the option to drop in to shower eat and sleep just be gone again as soon as he gets up. You aren’t running a hotel.

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