Mhy husband doesn't think I want him: What should I do?

So my husband doesn’t think I’m interested in him anymore because we haven’t done anything in like two weeks. But I am. I’ve just been busy with working two jobs and helping him with our three kids. he says there’s nothing he can do to change his mind, and he’ll just deal with it. What should I do?

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He’s up to something. My bf works through the week except Wednesday and weekend I work the weekend. Only day we get laid is on Tuesday nights if we r lucky we have 3 kids and our son like to go to bed late so if we lucky that’s our night however doesn’t always happen that way we went weeks on end. So sounds to me ur husband has a side chick and using that ur not interested as an excuse

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It sounds like he is feeling sorry for his self, your working two jobs!! an your helping him with the three kids, an just what job is he working?? that’s your answer!!

You stay home with kids and let him do two jobs and come home and still put more hours into domestic responsible jobs. Poor baby.

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He could be suffering from low self esteem… only you know if he lacks confidence… does he always need praise etc for what he does if this is the case you need to talk to him and say praise and support works both ways, he’s not a child … or he could be deflecting from something that he is up to snd trying to make u look like the bad one instead of him …

My husband has a rotating schedule and ae have to kids at home 4 and 10 months sometimes its a month before we get alone time and neither of us think like this. Since he said there is nothing you can do to change his mind it sounds like he is up to something

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Tell him to grow up and stop being a baby or just go if that’s what he wants life is to short. if you work 2 jobs he should be happy if not let him work 2 jobs don’t put yourself throw this bullshit because love is helping each other and caring about each other and understanding it’s hard doing 2 jobs take care

Instead of looking at what “he’s not getting “ why doesn’t he look at “ what’s good and right” with his life. Healthy kids, hard working wife, etc.

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Ignorance and depression is going to run your marriage off the track fast! Both of you need to get some new tools to manage the challenges and changes in your marriage! Start with education, maybe medication too! Prayer and marriage counseling too!

Your husband may be clinically depressed. Maybe a visit to a doctor would help,

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Really only 2 weeks and he says your not interested because of 2 weeks sounds like more to the story or he wants attention

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Be a bit** and tell him since you can’t change his mind “Sometimes you have to be a man, and use your hand”.

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I dont have to worry about a man crying cause he’s not getting any from me.

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Sounds very insecure. Its two weeks fucks sakes. It happens sometimes. To be honest he seems to be trying to make you feel bad to get what he wants. I would personally just ignore it.

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Fucking leave. This is emotional abuse. Do not take it. Trust me there is nothing there worth it

I don’t know what to say, been married 18 years and my wife can do about a million things to get me “interested”
Not saying you are doing anything wrong, sounds like he either has low T (most likely) or he has eyes for someone else (probably not)

What should you do? Leave this chump for a real man who isn’t so insecure he you have to pay his head and rub his belly everyday just so he knows he’s been a good boy.

Also, is this a woman’s “two weeks,” or a man’s “two weeks?” It shouldn’t matter, I’m just curious now! LOL

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Sounds to me like he is looking for an excuse to do something that he knows are against his vows!

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It looks like he’s making up an excuse to be naughty.

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so stop what you’re doing snd do something with him! how much clearer can this be?! hear him

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